How to make her want my validation or approval?

IGetBoredSometimes23 · 2021-11-02T07:08:36+00:00

I think she has to like you to care about your opinion.

shebecamedarkness · 2021-11-02T15:14:28+00:00

If she is a badass chick, she neither needs or wants validation or approval of anyone. Instead of trying to manipulate the situation... SHOW her what you can bring to the table. Whatever it is that you have to offer in the specific type of relationship you want with her.

Citizen_Graves · 2021-11-02T06:58:17+00:00

Demonstrate value

Engage physically

Nurture dependence

Neglect emotionally

Inspire hope

Separate entirely

You're welcome.

norwegiandoggo · 2021-11-02T08:37:08+00:00

Be an attractive man in all senses.

Spazzy_maker · 2021-11-02T18:53:15+00:00

Treat like a human being. Not as a object to be manipulated.

EpicJohnCenaFan · 2021-11-02T15:06:54+00:00

Don't give it away easily. I find I literally never have to give validation to get results, and it works great.

Just give her attention when she's doing things you like, cut it down when she's not.

If you try and escalate and she refuses (asking for whatsapp, a date, whatever), then cut the attention, but the response depends on which part you tried to progress and the girl's situation.

IGetBoredSometimes23 · 2021-11-02T11:57:00+00:00

People who are feel inferior want the validation of someone they see as better than them. I’m not telling you to be an asshole, but treat her like she ain’t nothing without saying that she is nothing, if she feels that you don’t care about impressing her or saying things to make her like you, she will seek your validation.

But, if you do this to a random girl, you would be an asshole, do it to a girl you think likes you because she will care about what you do more, over a girl who doesn’t see you as anything special.

HughBeaumont500 · 2021-11-02T13:52:28+00:00

Become her pimp

digitalindigo · 2021-11-02T19:19:05+00:00

Read "The Game" by Neil Strauss

UrFavPlayerIsBack · 2021-11-03T01:00:19+00:00

Validate and take it away give someone else

abundance-lover · 2021-11-02T15:33:05+00:00

How are you physically ? Are you a tall muscular guy, or are you a thinner guy?

kittybrehbreh · 2021-11-02T15:54:42+00:00

Nothing happens without attraction!

willgo-waggins · 2021-11-02T18:01:53+00:00

Be very careful of this.

I’m my experience I have found that women who need this are never going to get enough from just you no matter the status of your relationship.

Mymomdidwhat · 2021-11-02T18:52:12+00:00

Why in the world would you want someone obsessed with you? This screams personality issues.

JacobMoogberg69 · 2021-11-02T18:54:25+00:00

Easy. Be me.

SoIKickedHerInThePus · 2021-11-02T18:56:37+00:00

Be informed i guess become someone who’s opinion really matters. Load ur self up with experiences and speak in a calm steady manner

Fair-Transition9149 · 2021-11-02T20:19:20+00:00

this sounds very controlly ngl, best girls are the ones who know their worth and what they want

AelfredRex · 2021-11-02T20:34:12+00:00

Obsession is never a trait you want in a lover.

Wonderful-Wolf-3856 · 2021-11-03T00:02:53+00:00

If she’s subconsciously got you in her brain (body), smile give a hug & a kiss . All will be validated.

humptyone · 2021-11-03T00:19:37+00:00

Usually, all that is earned with the right lady. Many girls today know who they are. I told my daughter to never have to depend on a guy. There are to many toads out there now.

ASIMILAK · 2021-11-03T23:06:31+00:00

Be a BOSS. Nah but really just show here that you’re a genuinely good and capable guy (you are right?) in addition to being a great communicator as well as clearly demonstrating or showing her that it is totally okay for her to be her real self around you..

Title	How to make her want my validation or approval?
Author	SizeOk9282
Upvotes	23
Comments	75
Date	November 2, 2021 6:35 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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