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SnooDingos7816 · 2021-10-30T14:08:12+00:00

It’s a lost cause. Used to date a girl with similar traits but thing was I was that cold and distant guy. Not so much anymore.. honestly just pointless relationship because it lacks a great potential of growth

IGetBoredSometimes23 · 2021-10-30T12:09:32+00:00

If she's attracted to cold and distant people, and you're not that type, you're probably just not compatible. Find someone who likes your bubbly personality.

JacobMoogberg69 · 2021-10-30T12:59:17+00:00

If you had a friend that looks exactly like you, dresses exactly like you do, has the exact same job, hobbies and life experiences like you except that he has a different name and that person is your best friend. How would you advise him if he is so desperate as to go for a girl that he has to change himself for?

MO_drps_knwldg · 2021-10-30T15:58:55+00:00

Avoid altogether is the strategy. Path to misery.

drekoho · 2021-10-30T18:53:01+00:00

Well, if she acknowledges her issues, maybe encourage her to get therapy.

Neverendinglove1986 · 2021-10-30T19:25:37+00:00

Yikes

Lucazzz14 · 2021-10-31T01:13:17+00:00

I'd push them into the direction of therapy, personally.

heraldos · 2021-10-31T01:35:36+00:00

Be yourself and if she don't like look for another girl the world is full of girl who need a good man without fear of express his emotions

pialox · 2021-10-31T06:28:16+00:00

Pump and dump

Sweet-Yogurt-2000 · 2021-10-31T14:32:54+00:00

Guys, a girl in that position, we don’t realize how to be loved. When it’s dating time, we now rely on our boyfriends to hold that masculinity in our lives. So patience, love, and a masculine man is a good start. And don’t look at her as a child. Look at her with respect, and when it’s time, those moments will heal. We want to hear our man talk to us, this is all we want in our men. Show her and tell her, she’s aloud to be whatever she wants. She can be in her rule as the female, and that’s what you guys like.

gotpanda · 2021-10-30T14:44:31+00:00

Lame unhelpful advice so far, OP wants this girl. I'm dating a girl with daddy issues now, but no expert at the subject or game, but I'll try to offer some thoughts. Just be a little more distant then usual, keep her chasing. Act more on the mature side, be a man, be a gentlemen, be giving - but not in a simp way. I thought girls with daddy issues want that in a man, because they never got any love from their father? Maybe this girl actually wants to fuck her dad. Anyways, when not together just be more on the cool, distant side - just use a bit less wording, less eager, take more time to reply.

vanillapopsicle · 2021-10-31T03:47:05+00:00

Means she’s generally attracted to guys who treat her poorly, if you can play that guy sure, personally I never could.

gangweedsavedme · 2021-10-31T09:57:30+00:00

She has an anxious attachment style. Which works well with guys who have avoidant attachment styles. But it ends up being really toxic. So I guess your choice is that out find someone with a healthy attachment style

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