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dreameater42 · 2021-10-03T18:12:07+00:00

go outside

meteorness123 · 2021-10-03T19:33:14+00:00

Women want sex because women want sex. Men want sex because men want sex. How about that

I personally don't think lesser of a woman if we're having sex on the second date. And a lot of women who are into you will.

Speedsloth123 · 2021-10-03T19:11:26+00:00

This is a really damaging mentality, and pretty antiquated too. Viewing sex as something a woman gives you is commodifying something that should be a shared experience.

I think you’re really misunderstanding female sexuality. You said women give sex in order to receive emotional commitment. Don’t you think women want sex as well? Or is sex just something that women push through for the enjoyment of the man?

What about men? Do men not have emotions? I for one would like emotional commitment from my partners, even if it’s a fwb or open relationship. Men aren’t sex automatons who fake emotional investment to get their rocks off. Go live a little and talk to real women about what they want before you give more awful advice.

mattgk39 · 2021-10-03T22:36:08+00:00

Jesus christ what a stupid take. Women want sex because they enjoy it just like men want sex because they enjoy it. Some women want commitment just like some men want commitment too. Different people want different things and your goal should be to find women who want the same thing as you, and want that from you. You’ve read too much PUA bullshit.

wizardofterra · 2021-10-03T19:16:44+00:00

This dynamic is really only operative when two folks aren’t right for each other.

AelfredRex · 2021-10-03T21:14:59+00:00

Never turned a woman who wanted sex down, I'm guessing.

Delicious_Ad_1853 · 2021-10-03T21:18:13+00:00

Let's assume for a second that all of that is true.

What's the point? Is this part of a strategy to get more sex? From someone who otherwise wouldn't want to have that much sex with you? That's not going to lead anywhere healthy, man.

PuzzleheadedNote3 · 2021-10-03T19:00:45+00:00

Yup thats pretty much as accurate as it can get on a general perspective

Demon_Slayer_9 · 2021-10-04T02:48:27+00:00

Okay I will entertain this.

I don’t think what you’re saying is right. From what I understand you are saying women want emotional commitment and men want sex. Now I believe there are 2 groups people who want only sex and people who want commitment. 1 can be larger then the other. So let me make something clear for me a man I’m not having sex until marriage. I live in Canada but I am Muslim so my values on sex are different then most people from where I’m from.

Appropriate_Ad3327 · 2021-10-04T04:33:11+00:00

For men, just be tall and getting the girl would be easy. If you’re short then it’s game over.

Shadowfury957 · 2021-10-07T18:36:27+00:00

Is it against the rules to post a deleted OP? I'm assuming not but I may learn the hard way. I find myself agreeing with OP from my experience and understanding

OP "I was bored and thought I would drop some game on y'all, I will keep it brief.

There is a saying that women are the gatekeepers of sex while men are the gatekeepers of commitment. Some will say that today women are the gatekeepers of both, but lets just keep all things equal to get the idea. A guy in the friendzone is the equivalent of a women being a FWB or no strings attached sex.

When a man desires a woman they give women their attention. When a woman desires a man she gives him sex. The more a man desires a woman the more emotional investment he gives, while the more a women desires a man the more sex she gives. Each give what the other wants in an attempt to obtain their prime decretive. Men want sex from women and women want emotional commitment from men. Some relationships are one-sided. An ideal relationship is where there is a balance.

Men will not be rewarded with sex the more emotional commitment he gives, just as women will not be rewarded with emotional commitment the more sex she gives. The leverage/power lies in whoever readily concedes their imperative. Supply and demand, the more cheap something is the more worthless it is, that's why so many guys are not getting results with women because they give their attention away for nothing, and why women can not lock down the guy they desire because they put out so easily.

When you understand this dynamic it should become clear where you stand."

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