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[–]GuaranteeOwn5108 15 points16 points17 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Text her again in a day or two, maybe she’ll get back to you but if not then it’s time to move on.
[–][deleted] 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
This. Everyone on this sub massively overreacts to someone not responding. In reality, maybe only 12% of girls will respond again after they stop responding. But thats still more than out of every 10. You're getting so much more sex and relationship opportunities by following up, and you're risking absolutely nothing to do so.
[–]lildudefromXdastreet 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Additionally, we don’t know what OP said to her. Not every message needs a response
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If they don't reply after a day or two, I ask about FWB. Worked great a few times. Also helps if the conversation gets boring and you are going to lose it anyways.
[–]Abdimalilander 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Id say go balls out and just call. This is a trick that i always use, i think texting gives women far much more power than men.
[–]Longjumping-Stomach1 23 points24 points25 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Forget and move on to others, she is not worth it
[–][deleted] 17 points18 points19 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Hate this mindset. There's nothing you stand to lose from sending 1 more message trying to reignite the connection, and there's a lot you gain. It's risk free and high reward. Go for another message op, don't let your ego hold you back from doing the logical thing and giving it one more try.
[–]Saxon2010 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Get ghosted once, fine by me. Get ghosted twice, a loss for you. Number deleted and move on.
Any girl who has ever fucked me in my whole life, has never ghosted. I’m pretty sure if they ghost once it’s over. No one, unless they’re famous or a world class talent, is ever that busy and every girl that fucked has answered and replied. Imagine a girl not replying to Justin Bieber.
[–]jakelasc 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The only answer.
[–]GordonGecko69 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Weird times right now. So the normal game kinda doesn’t necessarily apply here. But you clearly weren’t all that interesting. B@&ch move giving your number. Always get hers.
[–]KingAJ032304 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Truth is it SHOULD be the otherway around and be a bitch move to need to ask for hers, but it is what it is when dating.
[–]GordonGecko69 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Wrong. Whether in dating or business always get the other person’s contact info. It ensures that you control the interactions, instead of waiting by the phone hoping they’ll call.
[–]PontusOfMars 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The issue started when you gave her your number, and you guys didn't transition from Tinder to text. A clear lack of compliance on her part, aka signs that she is not willing to play ball with you. When I give a girl my number on OLD, the ball is in her court to text me.
You're giving her mixed signals by giving her your number, and then remaining to chat in Tinder. Makes you look indecisive.
She simply might be an attention whore, or have a lot of options. From where I'm standing, this is an uphill battle and not worth the effort. Soft next. If she texts back go for the kill and get a date. Any other answer than a "fuck yes", is a "hell no" in Womanese
[–]froze_gold 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Be cool with it and back off. Texting for the sake of getting that response is needy and needy is unattractive. She'll come around on her own. If not just move on to the next
[–]RealHumanBeing2020 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don’t text her again. Find another girl who’s interested in you.
[–]TheSunshineMan 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes of course you should message the girl again..
Not all girls are easy YES GIRLS..
Why would you keep messaging on Tinder if you have the number?
This will only hurt your chances..
Hit a wall?
This only happens if you're not doing what you should be doing via messaging.
Setting up the date..
Texting isn't to get to know girls, meeting in person is.
[–]ManuelIyogunJr 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don’t be a simp.
[–]poet0588 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I think you messed up when you continued to message her via tinder after getting the number. You should have immediately set up that date
[–]ExnyerlawyerinFL 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
That’s not what happened. He gave her his number but didn’t get hers. He had no way other than tinder to contact her until she texted.
[–]poet0588 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Thanks for the clarification. Can’t believe I missed that! I feel he should have kept his options open instead of constantly messaging her on tinder
[–]ExnyerlawyerinFL 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You are welcome. It’s a tough situation to deal with the correct way. And I definitely won’t say I have the answers. If I told my tinder stories you would fall out of your chair laughing at me. Peace.
[–]kbecel -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah. It's creepy
Keep her in limbo and take a back step, never burn that bridge, but dont pursue her actively
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[–]flckoflcko 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Probably will just hit her up to start convo and hang within the next like 2 weeks or something then if nothing there I drop it
[–]New_Sock6775 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That’s is a clear sign she not feeling u, move on before it’s to late and your to deep in emotionally in something that doesn’t existed. if she text u again don’t answer she’s stringing u along.
[–]External_Lifeguard49 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Simple. Charge her to the game, on to the next one.
[–]popedaddyfiction -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Never double text move on, express your options.
[–]twintersx -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Remove this shit moderators come on
[–]flckoflcko 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just asking sorry bro
[–]mahasarah120 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don’t text her again. If she wants you she will text you.
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[–]flckoflcko 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Elaborate
Appreciate this bro real talk
[–]EbonyProgrammer 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She's talking to other guys and you are lower priority out of them for her right now, she might reach out but don't wait for it, talk to other girls.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Get off tinder and approach girls on your college campus. That’s what I do, you will stand out compared to all the other pussies who need dating apps
Just don’t lol Fück her And go find one who will
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