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TsarIvanTheTerrible · 2021-09-29T08:49:02+00:00

I’ve heard many girls say they had to do the same, I think you just need to find someone compatible for you

MisterShogunate · 2021-09-29T07:47:31+00:00

Okay so you think you are a virgin because you are too smart.

the_bbutterfly · 2021-09-29T09:27:33+00:00

thats why i do heavy drugs, to be at the same iq level of the common mortal

2021-09-29T07:33:23+00:00

I guess it depends on whether you’re willing to enjoy a less mentally stimulating conversation.

Sometimes it’s not bad to maybe simplify some things, but to completely dumb down for the sake of conversation wouldn’t be something I’d recommend. Keep doing you & hope you find someone who reciprocates the same “level” of “intelligence”.

Philosothink · 2021-09-29T08:13:25+00:00

I’ve gone full retard to hook up with a chick .. The whole time I was with her I questioned my life choices quietly in my mind. Yeaa I’d probably do it all over again though but obviously not wife material .. you gotta figure out what you’re looking for

tnpersona · 2021-09-29T14:51:18+00:00

Ironic, I just watched a video about this guy Schopenhauer- very smart person in general- but he said that sometimes in society, in order to connect with people, you must play the fool to an extent (act dumber than you are). His reasoning is that no one likes an overly intelligent person because it makes them feel stupid. For example, consider the person who pretentiously corrects another’s vocabulary on the spot.

People don’t like to feel like you’re lecturing them even if you’re just talking. Trust me, I use to hear it all the time. So the question to you is this: are you looking for a meaningful relationship or just someone to have fun with? If the former, I would suggest you be patient and look for a girl that matches your intelligence. The reason being that you surly wouldn’t want to be in a long term relationship with an idiot. However, if it’s the latter, I would suggest taking Schopenhauer’s advice. Play the fool so to not offend.

Ill_Presence3077 · 2021-09-29T09:59:24+00:00

Piss of you flipping idiot

Lazy-Conversation-75 · 2021-09-29T17:56:17+00:00

I need (not feel, but actually need) to shut down my brain to be able to have a conversation with most the men around me. The fragile egos and the stupid jokes and i-know-it-all attitude.

Fridge_SOUP · 2021-09-29T18:55:35+00:00

theseoulplayer · 2021-09-29T08:05:10+00:00

Depends on what you mean. If you mean discussing things that are 'beneath' you, like not discussing the moral implications of Tolstoy's formulation of God, then yes. If you mean actually saying dumber things, then no.

Unless a girl specifically expresses an interest in things that many would consider boring, then avoid it. That doesn't mean you have to be unintelligent, stop being observant, or speak / write with poor grammar. As in almost all conversations with anyone, you should start more generally then start bringing the conversation to more specific places.

eggcornO1 · 2021-09-29T11:53:08+00:00

In manner of speaking yes. This one girl I got with, she wasn't dumb or anything just wasn't cultered I guess. Didn't get a lot of my jokes and references, would take me seriously when I was being sarcastic, stuff like that. It would get pretty annoying at times but it was totally worth it tho. Great ass and hips for days

jok3r67 · 2021-09-29T17:14:51+00:00

With other people yes but with girls never. If you need to do that that means you are nit right for eachother. At least in my opinion.

FriendlyRegister1794 · 2021-09-29T20:32:50+00:00

just think less. not iq necessarily

Hmmoklolthisisfine · 2021-09-29T08:07:51+00:00

No and I hope you don’t either. It would be ridiculous to even attempt to rank someone’s intelligence level and even more ridiculous to change how you communicate because you THINK you are smarter than them.

important_accident · 2021-09-29T07:35:29+00:00

Evaldinho · 2021-09-29T13:09:54+00:00

Stupid people also banter.. don't have such a superior vision as to why you're lacking in succes.. oh I don't get with women, it's because I'm so much smarter than them.. yeeeah no, probs just a dick they don't want to connect with either

Daveee5280 · 2021-09-29T08:53:40+00:00

The problem may be you're trying to connect with a girl on a logical level when most women initially want an emotional connection. It doesn't mean they're less intelligent, they just might not be interested in connecting over the same things you are. I think this is a common problem for guys that tend to have a more logical thought process. Next time you feel like this ask yourself what type of emotions were you trying to cultivate from your conversation? Try to focus more on your emotional IQ rather than worrying about someone else's IQ and you might improve your results.

Fluffy_Risk9955 · 2021-09-29T10:02:14+00:00

This is probably due to the fact that you're on the high end of the IQ curve. Men have a different IQ distribution curve than women. For men it's wider. So on the low end mans IQ go much lower and on the high end mans IQ goes much higher. If you're in the high end part of the distribution curve you'll find the vast majority of women to be childish and stupid. Even at your own age when you're in your 30s.

Here's the thing.. Women make up for this in the emotional realm. So what they lack in rational intellect they make up for in the emotional intellect. See it as such. And that's why you as a man need to understand that this is why you're far better at making decisions. It's just a matter of waiting until you find a woman you'll accept in your inner circle who accepts your leadership and ability to make decisions. So you can team up, where she brings the warmth and nurturing you provide and protect the safe environment for her to fill with warmth and nurturing.

JacobMoogberg69 · 2021-09-29T10:57:48+00:00

In general guys think way too much. It's counter indicative.

2021-09-29T12:58:41+00:00

You're probably meeting the wrong type of girl, i felt like this sometimes when i was younger. I wasn't really meeting the sort of girl i should have been, i was doing it because i wanted to bang them.

As people get a bit older they tend to find being a bit nerdy more attractive and more importantly, you often become more at ease with being yourself. When you first meet someone it's okay to have the conversation dumbed down but if it continues at that level or you're not enjoying it then you need to move on. Otherwise you're not being sincere and just hanging around with a girl for the sake of it

External_Lifeguard49 · 2021-09-29T09:02:39+00:00

Only with the extremely attractive ones.

MattRet · 2021-09-29T23:15:07+00:00

Sometimes the most intelligent people are the most unassuming. Based on this post, you are likely much less intelligent than you think you are.

Jamesdoink · 2021-09-29T16:44:07+00:00

How's one get any lower than a 35 🤷 seriously that's ssd

No_Opportunity4321 · 2021-09-29T18:36:15+00:00

It depends the kind of girl that you talk with, and how you use your IQ to connect with a girl, not necessarily you have to use all your IQ in the speaking, you can use for some other details into the meeting

Horny_Blue_Eyes_Guy · 2021-09-29T19:58:54+00:00

So, something you need to learn is that not all people are the same and you can't use them for the same reasons. A dude I just met at a bar and I were debating the divinity of Christ in a very interesting and intellectual way. The table beind us had women in it, our other friend leaned over and asked them their opinion. Boom, I'm not good at making the opening but I'm great at sales, 20 minutes later I'm managing 3 ladies all of average intelligence and not interested in high brow conversions. I had a great time they had a great time then I had too many shots and lost my chance but the point is. Have fun with the people your around. Not everyone wants too or can have a super high level conversion. Also, its unlikely any woman thats interested will have one since most people are gonna be agreeable when first meeting someone their sexually attracted too. So, stop looking down on women and treat them like people not Aristotle, Kant, or Socrates.

JCAmsterdam · 2021-09-29T22:00:59+00:00

Dude… and we are having discussions how not to be too smart and successful because it “scares men away” and now you’re telling me you guys are also fake being stupid…

OwYouHitMeInMyWienew · 2021-09-29T22:45:06+00:00

Yeah women be dumb yo

jakeinmn · 2021-09-30T23:44:03+00:00

Nah I talk like this to everyone.

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