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The-Sea-Warden · 2021-09-12T23:26:59+00:00

Work out brother! That all you can do. Be content with the things you cannot change improve upon which you CAN

KingoftheNorth412 · 2021-09-12T23:16:48+00:00

Your friend is insecure. Don’t let his limiting beliefs affect you.

Go after women you want, if they don’t like you because or something you can’t change then that’s on them. There’s plenty of short guys with taller girls.

Come up with a few jokes about your height.

skyrunner22 · 2021-09-13T00:20:14+00:00

Bro the game dont stop, You probably might have to shoot your shot more but there are dudes with no arms or legs who have families.. Let your friend rot in his pessimistic mindset, their are millions/billions of 5'6 dudes who have gotten women since forever..

OneThousandYardStare · 2021-09-13T00:29:59+00:00

You know who was a sex symbol? Prince. You know how tall Prince was? 5'3". Tom Cruise is 5'7". Brother forget about your height, get lifted shoes if you really really want to but at the end of the day lean into your strengths. Hit the gym to make the rest of your body exactly how you want it to be. Self Invest by working out and learning a skill. I had a short buddy that got more butt than an ashtray because he could play piano and sing at the same time. It was magnificent. Height is what women think they want until you show them what it is they actually want.

My practical advice for your situation is to cultivate a thick and dense social network and have nodes around you that are deft at signaling your social value. One of the very successful short guys in my PUA community said that the problem with his height was that his social value was consistently undervalued in new situations and that when he worked together to run plays with his wingman and entourage to inflate social value, especially in a thick and dense setting, then those problems just disappeared.

FrogOfWar93 · 2021-09-12T23:29:51+00:00

Is it true that women prefer tall men? Yes.

Have any short men been successful with women? Yes.

The height thing is part of a woman's animal brain. A tall man makes her feel safe and protected. People also see tall people as being leaders too.

So, you should maximize everything you can. Work out, so your muscles make her safe. Have a bigger personality. Earn more money (you should strive for this anyway, not just for women) so she feels more secure being with you, also have a sense of humour about it - so she doesn't feel too awkward - as long as you don't act too self-deprecating.

You'll probably have to work a bit harder than the tall guys, but most women consider anything under 6ft as short, which is delusional. So, we all have to work harder to get past women's delusions!

It all boils down to how you make a woman feel. If you make her feel safe, secure, excited, appreciated, fun - and also make a real effort to form an emotional bond, where you value her inner world, thoughts, dreams, pain... your height will matter less.

Some girls won't give you a chance, but that's true for everyone, for any numbers of reasons.

So, go out there and do the best you can. Not to compensate for "being short" but for the grand mission of being a great Man. Ironically, that's what great women want any way.

AGENT_asshole_RAW · 2021-09-13T00:24:55+00:00

Don’t even sweat it king. Exactly what’s been said, there are tons of girls who like shorter guys, and there are even MORE shorter girls than you who will like your height just fine

MrBlackAndTan · 2021-09-13T00:05:20+00:00

Whew, 5'6", 35, and I'm thinking about where I was at 21. Keep you head on a swivel, there are going to be a few knocks to your confidence based on your height. Keep your head up, use it as fuel to grow, don't get in a downward spiral.

You're worthy of love, your valuable to yourself and others. Stay positive. Don't let others tell you your capabilities.

For relationships specifically, it's hard, not gonna lie. But the person(s) you choose to spend the rest of your life with will be people you share values, dreams, hopes, sorrow, regrets, success and failures, the good times and bad. Be that person who others want in their lives. Love yourself.

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HisRoyalAwesomeness · 2021-09-13T00:11:48+00:00

Focus on yourself. Try and set the best example possible and your friend may just realize that it's his attitude.

Let your actions do the talking. If he doesn't see what is possible with what you can do...so be it.

Also, fuck him for poisoning your mind like that

HughBeaumont500 · 2021-09-13T01:08:15+00:00

Work out

Make money

1 solution fits all

recyclablebanthas · 2021-09-13T04:14:09+00:00

I think that confidence is probably the most important thing.

This probably is the most important thing. And the best thing I could say about it is that you need to find ways to push yourself outside your comfort zone.

Try new things. Like try to develop new skills in something. Something that takes real work to improve upon. Something that you can see real results over time. It's a way of learning that you can trust yourself.

LakersAreTerrible25 · 2021-09-13T03:53:37+00:00

Height and looks really dont matter, even when it pertains to casual sex. I'm 6'5 on top of being good looking and I would say my game has purely been the reason for my success with women. I know a lot of tall and good looking guys like me with little to no women. In reality, the average looking 5'7 guy is usually the one with the most women. Due to there being so much more to it than looks for women. Just go out and take a look around at the people walking with a hot woman. They're often times below average height with ok facial asthetics and body composition

Harucifer · 2021-09-13T03:25:46+00:00

Just undergo bone-lenghtening surgery

NateHate1402 · 2021-09-13T00:08:23+00:00

Grow up.

TheeGoodWard · 2021-09-13T01:30:13+00:00

Fellow short guy here, there’s two major things I’ve learned. There’s some women that quite frankly aren’t going to be into you and that okay! But I had the poor me I’m short attitude and felt like no girls even acknowledged my existence. That quite simply was ridiculous, and I realized I wasn’t going to try to control something I couldn’t. Confidence is KEY, something I’ve learned to is while yes we have to work harder, we have a built in system that weeds out the shallow girl because if a girl is vibing with you as short guy, that means she vibes with YOU not your appearance, not saying she doesn’t vibe with that also. Don’t be so hard on yourself King pick your crown up and have confidence in yourself !!

lukitadagaler · 2021-09-13T03:26:19+00:00

I'm 5'7 25yo and honestly i've never felt my height was an issue with women i'm attracted to. I've always liked women shorter than me, I didn't even consider a taller woman, but it's my personal preference. Just as there are women who demand men who are taller than them, I want women who are shorter than me, and these never seemed to reject me because I don't have a certain height, I was taller than them and that was enough, so I think you may be overthinking it. Edit: I'm not saying I get every girl I want, I'm saying that I don't feel like my height was ever the reason I got rejected.

planned_serendipity1 · 2021-09-13T03:32:22+00:00

I always recommend working out and getting buff. When the first thing people think about you is "wow, what a great physic," your height will be much less noticeable. You will just "feel" taller to people.

dobbs1997 · 2021-09-13T03:55:48+00:00

i think your confidence is definitely the reason why you’re letting this height thing get to you mentally…i’m 5’7 and honestly i’ve never given a fuck about it, i still holler at chicks who are taller than me too, you gotta see yourself as the shit and you gotta believe it. how do you get to that point ? work on yourself, socialize with people, get out of your comfort zone on the daily, approach women, but make it all about you, you’re doing all this to better yourself, don’t do these things you mentioned so you can compensate for being short, do them because you wanna better yourself and level up. trust dude, height does not matter at all, it’s how you convey yourself.

dPensive · 2021-09-13T03:58:17+00:00

I wouldn't want somebody who wasn't ok with that anyway, what other superficial bullshit are they going to define their life by? No thanks

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