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doingitg · 2021-08-31T16:24:34+00:00

Entered college without ever kissing a girl. Got involved in a job that required me to talk to people all of the time. Eventually felt like a king amongst men because I started rewarding myself because I finally understood that people actually admire me for who I am. I also got really good at speaking with people, obviously. Had a threesome and got into an LTR the same year. The more you practice what you want, the better you get.

No easy way around. But eventually everything is possible.

WeakEmu8 · 2021-08-31T14:05:01+00:00

Wtf is kv?

sh1ftyswar · 2021-08-31T17:22:28+00:00

Not a kv but I got married real young while in the military and divorced around 25, I had been with my sons mother for like 6 years and had zero game or experience with other girls. I was a hot mess for the next 4 years or so. Something clicked around 29/30 and everything changed. I became much more relaxed around women, stopped worrying about what other people think. I ended up getting a second job at the door of a local pub, checking ID'S and some other security stuff. That, that was amazing. I almost couldn't lose and straight up had a few girls fighting over me. I'm nothing special and it was more the position of power mixed with IDGAF attitude in my opinion. Sure as fuck wasn't my looks or my doughy ass body.

nyysupastar · 2021-08-31T22:08:51+00:00

Lost my virginity at 23 and got into a LTR shortly thereafter that lasted 4 years. That ended this March and my body count was 2. I took a work on me mentality / have no fear mindset and my count is at 9 now. I know it’s not that crazy of a pace, but I think eliminating that doubt based off the idea that I took care of myself helped.

Also establishing a more risqué frame on first dates from the get go got me at least to 3rd base / home on most of the first dates with the girls I’ve been with since my breakup.

That said, I’ve been heartbroken multiple times this year, but I think reinforcement sort of builds resilience and confidence over time.

dontbanmeagaindudes · 2021-08-31T13:49:29+00:00

Why are you comparing yourself? you shouldn't do it.

yennybear888 · 2021-09-01T02:59:45+00:00

Lost my virginity at 22 (night before graduation actually!) She became my steady gf for 5 years (we were long distance) so my number count remained at 1 until I was 27. Broke up with her, studied and learned game and got on Tinder in NYC. Maintained a rotation of 7 at one point…got the n count past 60…now I’m in a relationship again. It can def happen!

maddisser101 · 2021-08-31T15:49:11+00:00

I had two girlfriends during college and barely spoke to women because of that. After graduating, I was completely lost. The best advice to give is to lift, find a passion, and approach as much as you can. All failures have a lesson but you have to go out and learn.

skatinislife446 · 2021-08-31T14:21:15+00:00

Wasn’t a virgin but had maybe 8 lays after I graduated college at 26. Most of them I fell into because of a program/class. Now I’m 30 and have around 40.

Midnight5un · 2021-08-31T19:33:16+00:00

I know it's said to death but you gotta put yourself out there. Go out w a friend if you have a hard time engaging one on one. I think you missed a lot of good opportunities though bc high school and college are where you'd have large group hangouts that more often than not involved alcohol etc. I'm not saying take advantage of drunk girls. Just that it lowers your inhibitions and makes the nerves not as intense. I used to be petrified to tt girls. Never even dated a girl all through high school. Then I just started hanging out w groups of friends and I'm not any Cassanova or anything but I've had a few G/F's, one night stands and FWB over the course of the last decade plus. 24 total which pales in comparison w most of my friends but I'm okay w a low number.

Canadian-Seductioner · 2021-08-31T20:42:11+00:00

Entered university a virgin, but lost my virginity within the first few weeks at a frat party (18yo). However, I didn't really have any success after that until I went on exchange in Europe (20yo). That new environment really helped me grow out of my shell and improve my game. Came back and struggled again, but was doing better than before (21yo). That being said, it wasn't really until I graduated and moved to a whole new city & country (23yo) that I started to get successful. Now I'm getting laid pretty consistently (28yo).

Work on it, maybe enter a new environment, and you'll get there too.

dani098 · 2021-08-31T15:46:33+00:00

I was a virgin at 24. Has sex, had more sex at ~30 -35. Still have sex approaching 38. Went home with a 6-8, 22 yo this weekend.

Edit. 24 lost virginity at 24 not 34

MeditateWithJake · 2021-08-31T15:00:14+00:00

Start with this YouTube channel: the Natural Lifestyles and check out their infield videos (also has free trainings for first dates) will give you a great crash course on all the common mistakes you might make as a beginner.

The_Flying_Finn · 2021-09-01T09:52:22+00:00

What's a KV?

M0dsRGay69 · 2021-09-01T06:05:39+00:00

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Mikell01 · 2021-09-01T11:14:46+00:00

Had no confidence or self esteem in high school. Slept with maybe 5 girls. Then I left school and joined a band and I'm now late 30s. Slept with approx 100 women since. Still think I'm a failure as blew so many other opportunities over the years mainly due to alcohol.

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