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RichE_Richhh · 2021-08-14T02:47:43+00:00

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gigi79sd · 2021-08-14T06:40:51+00:00

Most women aren't at the gym to meet men. So just don't.

No_Load_7183 · 2021-08-14T04:26:43+00:00

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Ecstatic-Flounder-48 · 2021-08-14T02:52:58+00:00

Honestly, best approach I do is to chat up gym regulars. Sometimes these are girls. You ask how they’re doing, complement their work ethic, smile and nod when you see them on the day to day. Eventually you ask if they’d like to get coffee. Slow game

HazeDemon · 2021-08-14T01:19:34+00:00

Nothing, you are there to focus and workout.

Matayoman · 2021-08-14T14:30:30+00:00

Don’t approach in the gym.

Let them approach you. Be social with other guys, get a social circle going and naturally the gals will want to join in.

As a social guy who is regular at the gym, I chat up all the guys at the gym and never approach girls. With that said, every girl knows my name and commonly approach me.

Humans are social creatures, and being socially competent or socially alpha, not being an asshole or anything, just being very socially diverse is extremely attractive.

MyName_isLame · 2021-08-14T19:59:38+00:00

You can say hi and “nice shoes” etc.. to the girls that you say smile at you. But leave the others alone unless they give you a cue that they are open for chit chat. Ex:smile, long eye contact, speak first

VeryCashul · 2021-08-14T02:56:55+00:00

Never approach in the gym. Either on your way in, on your way out, or even at the check in desk before y’all start working out. Engage in a little small talk & see where it goes from there.

BobbyJohnson31 · 2021-08-14T04:55:22+00:00

Introduce yourself, ask there name, ask if they come here alot or if they do tell them u see them here alot and would like to get a workout in some time. Do it when you are leaving

DakiAge · 2021-08-14T05:49:06+00:00

The woman chooses so if you want to approach someone, you should have good eye contact with her.

In order to be able to approach one of them, you need to increase your self-confidence and practice.

For example, you should always speak with strangers and ask for directions or time.

This will help you to get confidence to approach them.

TheSunshineMan · 2021-08-14T16:53:22+00:00

“nice outfit”

No don't say this at the gym - women are highly self conscious at the gym.

2021-08-14T21:45:09+00:00

Approach at bar/club/party or tinder. Dont be that guy at the gym that hits on girls.

VashtiVoden · 2021-08-14T13:58:01+00:00

dude don't listen to the mental masturbation kj crowd here, approaching girls in the gym is fine.

what i do is i go hover near them or get a station close to them, so it isn't like you walked across the entire gym to meet her. Like if she's at a squat rack i will pick a rack next to her. If you can't pick a machine close to her i just go to get some water and on my way back make a dash past her. Then i will open her simply with either A) "Hi, i have seen you around here before, what's your name?" or B) "Hi, i don't think i have seen you here before, what's your name?". easy peasy.

then i just talk with her and suggest we meet some time outside the gym. this has worked for me personally before and the girls who turned me down were still flattered. if she turns you down tell her "No problem, take it as a compliment, enjoy your workout" so it doesn't get weird if you see her again. some of the girls i approached but who turned me down i would still greet and make light small talk and banter with afterwards when i saw them again.

all these people telling you "dont do it bro for XYZ peepeepoopoo reason"; take is a shittest. when women discourage approaching in the gym it's to ensure the weak beta males don't interrupt them and only the confident men who doesnt give a shit approach them. Good luck!

Fidel__CashFl0w · 2021-08-14T05:32:27+00:00

Keep going until you become a regular. Once they notice your determination, focus, and hard work they'll start showing signs of interest. However, dont try to talk to them while they're working out. Do it on the way in or on the way or even while they're waiting for a squat rack or machine.

fist28349 · 2021-08-14T10:24:07+00:00

Bro don’t ask out girls in the gym, ask out girls in places like restaurants, public gardens or your place of education

theprufeshanul · 2021-08-14T07:56:17+00:00

Best way is to smile broadly, don’t be shy with the eye contact, lead off with some small talk like “hey there, my names Joe, I own this gym (as well as the other franchises across the city), I work out here just to keep an eye on things and wanted some feedback as I’m thinking of redecorating the place. what’s your favorite colour?”

3pinephrine · 2021-08-14T06:45:46+00:00

Nothing.

Mymomdidwhat · 2021-08-14T06:43:47+00:00

Nothing….you don’t approach women at the gym.

suffocationn · 2021-08-14T08:43:10+00:00

don't

greatlifeahead · 2021-08-14T08:50:24+00:00

If you have eye contact then just say hi and comment their training. I got a number from a girl who was squatting heavy and I said to her that I am impressed by her squatting and that girls usually don't squat so heavy weight. That turned into a longer chat and me asking her number.

It is very important to read the room though and you should leave her alone if she doesn't send you IOI while talking. Don't be that guy who doesn't get the hint and who keeps on talking to women who don't care.

dasanman69 · 2021-08-14T14:46:52+00:00

I wanna pump you up

External_Lifeguard49 · 2021-08-14T16:09:24+00:00

Hi, how is your workout going?

Hmmkey · 2021-08-14T16:09:48+00:00

Ask her how much she benches

Frankie8_8 · 2021-08-14T18:08:36+00:00

Be gentle but not too much. Talk about her. Ask question about her. Tell her that she is in a good shape (if it's true). Smile. Be positive and confident. Try to convince her that she is unique and has all your attention (but not too much). Give her tricks to feel better. Like, tricks to stretch muscles. Etc.

orangeherring768 · 2021-08-14T19:48:02+00:00

Just walk up and ask for their number lmao

buckles4077 · 2021-08-14T21:53:43+00:00

Ask them about their regime!

dani098 · 2021-08-15T01:09:31+00:00

Here’s a take on the opinion that you shouldn’t talk to women in the gym

If you’re a gym rat and you live in the gym you’re gonna wanna date a gym rat that lives in the gym. If you’re not successfully talking to women in the gym you’re not a gym rat and you’re not working out enough

Edit. Just to clarify that goes with women to. Women who live in the gym one of the guys they go to the gym. A matter fact female Jim Reyes will only date guys that go to the gym

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