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External_Ad_4802 · 2021-07-22T15:22:47+00:00

I disagree with

2) For the sake of your mental health and sanity- stay away from crazy people in general. Don't tolerate disrespect or "crazy" just because she's hot.

Stormbreaker_98 · 2021-07-22T16:58:02+00:00

Disagree with 3. It's not about cheating. Its about morality. In my eyes breach of trust is a moral crime and supporting a crime is as bad as doing it.

Disagree with 5. many times ( examples more than 10 in number) we get the same frequency people when are in the same course. So classmates is good with me. Colleagues and neighbour to some extent. Depends on if you sync. Have seen long term relationship between neighbour.

Ahh! 9 is hard for me. I am the first to open up. That means she knows more about me that I know about her. Rest of my problems are communication skill related

Good points thanks for sharing!

p00psicle151590 · 2021-07-22T19:13:32+00:00

If shes too easy to fuck, dont value her?

Why are you that easy to fuck if you're agreeing to sleep with her? Double standard imo.

0din23 · 2021-07-22T13:46:06+00:00

Half of those are copied from How I Met Your Mother.

DaydreamingMister · 2021-07-22T18:54:44+00:00

Haha Cool. Saw some accuracy there.

Had never heard of FORD method. Prolly will add it to the toolbox. Thanks.

Animetingz · 2021-07-23T03:08:24+00:00

The only thing I don't agree with is number 17! Me and my ex would see this in restaurants all the time and we both agreed that it was weird, and I still think that. You have two seat why sit on the same fuckin side. Give the girl some space, shit give me my fuckin space I need my elbow room!

External_Ad_4802 · 2021-07-22T21:02:28+00:00

#10 should be rule #1. "Men like what they see, women like what they hear. You have to communicate with a girl very well and tell her the right things."

Say the right words, in the right way and she'll start to imagine what you're saying in her mind. As she continues to imagine these delicious thoughts her body will respond with feelings (she'll get horny) and she'll associate all those lovely images and feelings with you, because you were man enough to speak to her like a man.

BluePsychosisDude2 · 2021-07-22T16:27:40+00:00

I was iffy on #3, but lean towards that. If the girl is capable of being seduced by a guy, then somebody is probably going to do it. Unfortunately (or fortunately) the nature of the game is that most women in relationships still respond with attraction to men who escalate with them, it's just that most have the good sense to remind themselves they are married/have a boyfriend and stop themselves.

But honestly if a girl had a boyfriend/husband and still was DTF I'd probably go for it, although I haven't encountered that yet.

Saint_Knowles · 2021-07-22T19:20:26+00:00

I'll browse this sub fairly regularly for a week, think "hey r/seduction isn't as toxic as other people say a lot of grounded reasonable advice for attracting women, and then I'll see a post like this and lose most of that good faith.

NiNj4_C0W5L4Pr · 2021-07-22T22:28:54+00:00

Disagree: 5, 26, 34. 5) been with 5 women from work. One gave birth to my child and another turned out to be amazing. We dated for 6 years & ended amicably (possible when one controls their ego and not the other way 'round). We work next to each other every day and are still friends. 26 & 34 go together because here is where 99.9% of men fail: learn how to show and thereby trigger romantic feelings in a woman while on a date. If you talk about her brother it's like throwing a bucket of water on that spark you're trying to create. Mention her brother while having sex, see what happens. You have to spend the date trying to increase her buying temperature by having the right conversation. "Tell me what it feels like when you're connecting with someone. Describe your first kiss. Have you ever had butterflies in someone's presence." It's called transference and it works like this: you get the woman to describe all the good feelings that you want her to have and then she will begin to associate those good feelings with being around you. It's the difference between having a dating plan that yields positive results and just winging it and "hoping" she likes you. If you date in this manner you will see the kiss from hours away and be in control of when it happens. Most guys fail by avoiding romantic topics and then the kiss at the end of the date is awkward af because her attraction was never sparked. Remember the point of dating, my dudes: to increase her attraction and turn that spark into a raging fire. Good post (spot on), thanks for sharing!

yurifca · 2021-07-22T16:35:52+00:00

There is so much I disagree with I can't even start

External_Ad_4802 · 2021-07-22T18:53:03+00:00

I swear this sub is full of psychopaths.

Hayden_Beroc · 2021-07-22T21:05:40+00:00

why not use husband or boyfrind condom if you don't have one on you? some pls explain

LandscapeClear1630 · 2021-07-23T02:52:13+00:00

A girl is allowed to be crazy, as long as she’s equally hot.

I mean... what level of crazy are we talking here?

foghatyma · 2021-07-23T11:42:03+00:00

I disagree with 15th heavily. Basically in my eyes there are three types of relationships:
1) One night stands: Waiting with sex doesn't make sense here.
2) Short term / FWB: Again, doesn't make sense.
3) Long term: If someone is so uninteresting and has so little value in your life that waiting with sex could be a factor then how could this work in a long term?

And 22-25 (especially 22) should be applied at all times to all people, not just when a girl you want something with is present.

LadyHorneeCentaur · 2021-07-22T18:56:33+00:00

"Allowed" to be crazy as long as she's hot, gtfo you arrogant pos

2021-07-23T03:33:36+00:00

The urge to get women really leads some of you guys to be absolute pieces of shit tbh

bskslsksld · 2021-07-22T17:14:47+00:00

I disagree with 19, I am not paying for anyone on first date. I will pay for second, if she has a problem we won’t be going for a date.

murphman1999 · 2021-07-23T03:16:04+00:00

Never use the boyfriend’s or husband’s condoms.

WHERE DID THIS ONE COME FROM!? GOSSSHH haha

Never sit across the table on the first date. Sit next to her.

If by "sitting next to her", you mean at a 4-chair square table -- fine. At any other table configuration, that sounds exhausting

Go on your first date to a place you know reasonably well that is within 10 minutes drive or walk to your house.

What's the purpose for this one? Why not her house?

Use the FORD method. Get her talking about her Family, her Occupation, Recreation and her Dreams.

The D should definitely stand for Dog

Ankwilco · 2021-07-22T18:32:39+00:00

Never sitting across the table (or in a park), yeah. Agreed.

Interesting-Brief202 · 2021-07-22T15:49:24+00:00

I disagree with 28 but otherwise great list

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thebookofrook · 2021-07-22T18:44:54+00:00

28 and 11 are the same. 18 is not a rule (universally applicable) some women will find that to be a major red flag.

remarque55 · 2021-07-22T18:46:01+00:00

i disagree with 15

eydriyans · 2021-07-23T02:23:36+00:00

Thanks for these profound rules mate. I learned some stuff. Also, i totally agree with #4

FalconVita · 2021-07-23T05:43:01+00:00

Number 8 is the best advice.

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