I've gone on a lot of dates in 2010 and I've dated probably 8 or 9 different girls so far.. however, something has always been missing which has meant that I didn't want to turn the casual dating into a relationship. Either the girl wasn't what I considered hot enough (8.5+) or not smart/mature/cultured enough.

Basically, I have super high standards and have problems finding the "best" girls. I really would love to find a super hot grad student for example.

However I'm not at college anymore and don't know really where those girls hang out. Probably they don't even go to bars because they're studying or something.

Ideas?