[FR] First cold approach, first K-close [recovered]

PrufesurSheen · 2014-03-27T03:19:18+00:00

Cute is the best way to describe this. Day game leads to day-date. Nice! Word of advice brother, see about formatting your text. There's no word wrap and I've never seen a post like this, takes longer to read.

lets_get_weirder · 2014-03-27T05:34:13+00:00

As I knew one conversation topic was about to end, I stopped and said "yeah?" (THANK YOU SEDDIT)

Can someone explain?

radikole · 2014-03-27T05:06:08+00:00

I rarely comment but you are inspirational man! Good on you

GuruDev1000 · 2014-03-27T07:34:31+00:00

Until the OP creates paragraphs -

There is a long backstory to this that I will try to give you guys the lowdown on.

I'm 19 and have recently gotten out of a two year relationship a year after graduating; yes, I was the guy every boyfriend shouldn't be, a needy, lonely, stoner, care-free no-balled boy. Since recently moving up to the Yukon I decided if I want to meet people I need to change myself, so I went and got a gym membership, stopped smoking weed, starting caring about all of my physical hygiene ten fold, and starting reading seduction books and following Seddit.

Over the course of the last two weeks I have gained so much confidence. Practicing a smirk walking around for a couple hours really makes it feel comfortable to smile all the time and you feel so much happier in general! After building this new found confidence and joy in my life I took it out for my first day game session So it was a beautiful sunny day up here today and I finally got to take my longboard out and hit the pavement. Woke up around 8, went to the gym around 9, then took off downtown on my longboard.

Once arriving down there I see a perfect potential, HB8, in my opinion! She is 5'9" which compliments my 6'4" stature very well, long dirty blonde hair, and brown eyes that would make even the cutest puppy dog eyes melt. She is 21 years old!

Rode up to here and immediately put that smirk I've been practicing to the test before I asked her out of no where "Hey, who are you?" she smiled back to me and introduced herself, I asked her where she was going and made small talk for 5 minutes or so, the anxiety went away very quickly while maintaining a tall confident stature and making comfortable yet deep eye contact. She was on her way to work so she had to get going, I could feel the tension in her eyes though its an inexplainable feeling and now I understand it! I asked quickly when her lunch break was and she said 1. So I asked if i could take her out for coffee and I'll pick her up from work at 1. She accepted and gave me her number! YES Went home and got all ready, feeling totally pumped, this is my first interaction, first "date" with another girl! (I have only ever been with one)

I picked her up from work and she was kinda nervous but greeted me with a lovely smile. The nervous part made me a lot more comfortable, knowing that I was in control for once. We got to the cafe and talked about what to order etc.

I did not once offer to pay for anything of hers, we paid seperately.

We sat down and I started asking questions just making casual banter and rapport, we were talking about how we like our eggs and and she said soft, teased her a little with a very light shoulder slap and laughed saying, "what you don't like it hard?" She was very receptive to my little sexual innuendos. As I knew one conversation topic was about to end, I stopped and said "yeah?" (THANK YOU SEDDIT) and continued smiling and made deep eye contact with her, she she smiled back and gave a very flattering face.I was in, and I knew it.

My pre-knowledge before leaving the cafe 30 minutes later; was that she just got out of a relationship of three years about 4 months ago and hasn't met a guy or even talked to one really since then, she considers herself an introvert because she works 70 hours a week but shes a total bombshell!

Walking back to my vehicle I ran my hand along her lower back and grabbed her hip and pulled her into me and joked around saying, "I cant wait to meet your family" she laughed accordingly and we got into my vehicle. I pulled up to her work, and this was it. The 'what if' ran through my head if I didn't make the move after our semi-awkward "... so i'll see you again soon i hope" blah blah blah.. so I did it. I leaned right in after counting to one, across my console and right in her face in the passenger seat, I stopped about an inch away from her lips and she was still smiling, I kissed her.

I KISSED HER.

We kept kissing for about 2 minutes before she had to go back in for work, and she got out of the vehicle skipping across the street. Best. Day. Ever.

I really have learned a lot from this forum in such a short time. I thank all of the posters on here! Even just being a lurker pre-hand, I feel great knowing I can contribute knowledge to this topic of discussion now :) Best of luck out there boys!

ninjamuffin · 2014-03-27T07:07:41+00:00

Guys, we've found a natural

WorthyAlpaca · 2014-03-27T07:32:57+00:00

How did you practice that walking smirk? I feel so stupid when I do it lol.

2014-03-27T04:19:18+00:00

You're a fucking boss. This is what this community is for. WELL DONE, SIRE!

AnnTauz · 2014-03-27T06:45:18+00:00

Man, youre a boss! And take care of her,she might be somehow hurted from the last relationship

trollin_zebra · 2014-03-28T02:02:22+00:00

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phreekk · 2014-03-27T07:07:37+00:00

good for you man. well done brother.

sloshslapper · 2014-03-27T10:44:50+00:00

You are doing this the right way. You are learning the value of romance in making yourself and other people happy and you are learning how to use it without abusing it. Well done sir.

MDPSL · 2014-03-27T12:30:53+00:00

Man, I am proud of you. As a fellow 19 year old who also just came out of a relationship of two years i feel ya..

dLat · 2014-03-27T13:51:15+00:00

Seems more like a fkn love story than a FR. Good job OP. ;)

HIGHSPARTAN · 2014-03-27T16:55:03+00:00

"Hey, who are you?" is a line that I can be comfortable with. I'm going to use that.

adirtygerman · 2014-03-27T16:59:57+00:00

Good shit dude!

fourson · 2014-03-27T17:03:37+00:00

Wow that was fantastic. Good job. Absolutely marvelous.

notlurkinganymoar · 2014-03-27T18:51:46+00:00

Level up! Nice work.

bob4job · 2014-03-27T23:18:39+00:00

Awesome! the one thing I dont get is the family question. Im thinking maybe it is missing context

AceAndre · 2014-03-27T05:39:28+00:00

TEACH ME

pulmiben · 2014-03-28T01:40:06+00:00

I praticed my smirk just reading this! keep it up! hope you post more

StealYoGirl · 2014-03-27T10:02:58+00:00

ITT: OP kisses a girl for the first time.

Title	[FR] First cold approach, first K-close [recovered]
Author	adoway [recovered]
Upvotes	206
Comments	42
Date	March 27, 2014 2:36 AM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/21h1yo/fr_first_cold_approach_first_kclose/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/fr-first-cold-approach-first-k-close.1368151 https://theredarchive.com/post/1368151

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