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Francis_Dolarhyde_93 · 2018-08-24T12:00:27+00:00

The easiest way in college is just say - hey I recognized you from class, and introduce yourself outside of class. In college that's not weird at all. Or if you are in class, discuss the actual material with the person sitting next to you, when its appropriate. Ask her a quick question, or double check a point that was made. People like it when you assume they are smart enough to help you.

nizdi · 2018-08-24T17:33:06+00:00

Ok guys, stop talking about fish and fisherman and help the guy.

ImJustSo · 2018-08-24T14:12:45+00:00

You don't ask a fish how to catch fish. Also, you're in their class, you just say hi.

Batmanforreal2 · 2018-08-24T13:36:54+00:00

Dont ask women for advice on picking up women. They have no idea how it is. Id even say do the opposite of what women tell you to do.

SpinPlates · 2018-08-24T18:06:48+00:00

Women, how would you like to be approached in college?

By attractive guys.

natephant · 2018-08-24T16:53:05+00:00

The funny thing about asking women questions like this... is that they will give you an answer... that doesn’t work on them. Then you’ll see them positively respond to something completely different then what they said works.

OGthelegendaryplaya · 2018-08-24T15:27:52+00:00

"If you want to learn how to fish, dont ask the fish, ask the fisherman." -Some guy smarter than me

dailymanup · 2018-08-24T15:18:03+00:00

Approach women, but don't try to close on the college cold approach. Build your network. Social networks get you laid.

Gluten-free-poo · 2018-08-24T21:16:55+00:00

My college roommate was better with women than me, and one day he mentioned what worked for him typically was he would simply compliment something they’re wearing. Started tryin it out at the bars and notice how easy it made at least getting things rolling.

I’m no fashion expert, but I know what types of looks I like. So I’d only use this if I ACTUALLY liked what they’re wearing. Women know if you’re just tossing out BS compliments. If you actually like what you’re complimenting, it’s easier to be genuinely enthusiastic about it.

Small example is I like girls in beanies. One night jumpin on the bus after the bars I bumped into one, we laughed and made eye contact, she was cute and I noticed the beanie so I whipped out the compliment, she threw a compliment right back at me about mine, and inevitably sat next to each other on the bus ride back to campus.

Different scenario was the girl who ended up my girlfriend, who had a much more unique look (nerdy glasses, sun hats or beanies, obnoxiously colorful book bag, graphic Ts, unique dresses, etc.). Sat next to her in class and pretty early on complimented how I noticed her unique look and really liked it. The rest just becomes getting to know more!

Sharpshooter90 · 2018-08-24T12:04:15+00:00

“Hey can i smell your hair?”

CharacterNote · 2018-08-25T08:05:38+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fCbOmHwrxuY

undextrois · 2018-08-24T17:46:36+00:00

Chode question of the day

dalen52 · 2018-08-24T11:59:12+00:00

I’ve learned approaching is about confidence and practice. Might as well gain practice experience. Sounds like your confidence is shot. The guy that will eventually get those girls have no problem talking to them. Best of luck! You’ve got this.

Alex_O7 · 2018-08-24T13:28:48+00:00

I'm not a woman but i can try to give you an answer based on my experience.

On campus should be very easy to tall to a girl, you have multiple choice. You can stop girls while walking around the campus, using basically same approccing techniques of day game, with a huge advantages pheraps. You know that the girl you're talkin is a student and attend college so you have easy arguments to start conversation, but you also have an idea of what are the passions and of the cultural level of the girl, just because she is attending college (and knowing what classes she attend). And this thing is valid for whatever type of approach you choose.

Second intresting way of approaching is by going to library or other place of study (better if there aren't strict rules about silece), you can seat near cut girls, and you can try slowly to interact with them (in a non creepy way and without disturbing them from studying too much). This is a way i like a lot for example.

Third, you can talk (10 time easier than the two previous case) with girls of your classes. You have a shared intrest so you have natural argument of interaction, but also this could lead you to "easy-date", i.e. asking for some studying together. Other great advantage of this choice is that you have a similar time table of the girl, so you can manage better the time.

So know is up to you! ;) make the move!

CharacterNote · 2018-08-25T10:28:05+00:00

what women TELL you they want/what they ''think' they want, and what they actually respond to are very different things.

Asking for womens advice on hooking up would never have happened in the community 10 years ago. We've regressed! : haha

knowledge-seeker27 · 2018-08-24T17:27:50+00:00

When you want to know how to hunt a deer don’t ask the deer, ask the deer hunter.

7asas · 2018-08-24T10:46:42+00:00

folge deinem Herzen

gtrman571 · 2018-08-24T13:01:31+00:00

Ask her if she wants to “study” together

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