Is it true that guys prefer bitchy girls over nice girls?

GrandMasterB19 · 2020-07-18T21:21:23+00:00

I can answer this. Guys aren't attracted to bitchy girls. It's the inverse of same stereotype that girls are attracted to asshole guys. What the bitchy girls and asshole guys have that nice girls and nice guys don't is sex appeal. Bitchy girls have a stronger sexual edge to their demeanor, temperament, and personality.

Most people don't want a nice guy/nice girl or a bitch/asshole. Men and women are pretty similar in this regard. Most people want someone balanced. A man that can act like a gentleman when appropriate, and a freak when appropriate. Or a woman that can act like a lady when appropriate, and a freak when appropriate.

G33funk95 · 2020-07-18T19:37:29+00:00

I got you fellas. Fuck no. They don’t respect themselves if they do

dentalizer · 2020-07-18T19:40:46+00:00

For every type of girl there's a type of guy.

-Asher- · 2020-07-18T21:33:12+00:00

Fuck no, are you kidding? If I went on a date and she was bitchy, I'd leave her.

butterbukkake · 2020-07-18T20:49:50+00:00

Absolutely no on bitchy women. Bitchiness is a automatic cancellation from me, as it shows a low level of emotional intelligence which is important to build a relationship with.

Confidence is great, though I know few women who know the difference between confidence and bitchiness.

revente · 2020-07-18T20:03:24+00:00

A lot of guys are with bitchy girlfriends. It's not their preference, just they couldn't get with a pleasant one.

Mencken1000 · 2020-07-18T20:43:24+00:00

I prefer confident, take-no-shit girls; don’t define that as bitchy...

StephenDawg · 2020-07-18T19:41:28+00:00

No, I wouldn't say that. I think a girl can be too submissive/passive and docile to the point where it's boring... but that's a little different than her just being nice, or sweet etc.

ThirtyWize · 2020-07-18T20:11:04+00:00

Nice guy vs Nice girl. We all just want someone that has their own personality and opinions, not someone boring who just nods along to everything we do. I wouldn't say I want someone "bitchy" though. Fine line.

ForrestGump06 · 2020-07-18T20:32:11+00:00

No not at all. I’d much rather date a nice girl who just wants a drama free relationship

Dominus-Prime- · 2020-07-19T04:36:44+00:00

Bitchy? No. Bratty? Yes

appleORorange · 2020-07-18T19:44:42+00:00

not true for me

ArmedSquirel · 2020-07-18T20:44:39+00:00

personally

like girls that are playful don't get immidietly offended by simple teasing, girls that got game(usually not girls but women 30-40), somewhat edgy, in general everything that is usually found in woman in her mid to late 30s and smart girls

dislike boring even when you really get to know her, always anxious, and everything on the other spectrum of the first paragraph

i like more a playful, smart and interesting 7(in looks) than boring, constantly btching, dumb 10

i have no unusual dealbreakes expect myb if you have bad hygene or something like that

size of boobs and ass is no dealbreaker for me although i prefer smaller nice shape boobs

that's just me personally answering your question, I'm sure each guy is different

PsychologicalRoof2 · 2020-07-19T00:49:16+00:00

I think I have a preference for that. Like I don't mind a cute romantic book good girl but a girl who can have fun without thinking that there's "only one" or some other cindrella crap is better.

This is a personal opinion

BBCinParis · 2020-07-19T00:57:19+00:00

No! 100% straight guys prefer feminine, girly girls. And bitchy girls are feminine girly girls. So we tolerate their bitchyness because of their femininity till we find a better woman.

vardarac · 2020-07-19T01:57:14+00:00

Girls, men, anyone who wants to constantly give you a hard time just because are exhausting to everyone, even themselves. That said, if she can throw mean banter but doesn't hit below the belt she's a keeper.

LupeCorleone · 2020-07-19T05:11:43+00:00

Backing up everyone else here: nerrrrrp. The girl I'm most interested in right now is incredibly sweet, gracious, and has never said a negative thing about anyone nor anything.

NCreature · 2020-07-19T07:15:48+00:00

No. Men do not like bitchy women. Period. At any age. It's literally one of the things that really gets under most men's skin. You have to realize for most men their concepts of 'woman' and feminine love are formed from their relationships with their mother, and if you're a halfway decent mother you're probably not treating your sons with a bitchy demeanor (usually quite the opposite mothers tend to baby their sons even into middle age) so when men come across bitchy women its really off-putting. Female bitchiness is also very masculine. It comes across to men the same way a girly wimpy whiny man is off-putting to many women.

You may find guys who have a very negative self-image, and therefore seek out women who put them down and demean them and basically corroborate the man's own negative self-concept. You see this a lot of times with people who have sexual fetishes where the man is often stripped of all power and abused. You basically have to have a terrible self-concept to allow something like cuckoldry (despite how popular it is). People's outer world will often be a mirror of their inner world, so if you treat yourself like shit, it's not surprising if that person allows others to do the same.

Vidata · 2020-07-19T16:38:56+00:00

Hell no bitchy girls can fuck right off

sexyhothung · 2020-07-18T19:40:36+00:00

Yes, in general, I think guys are more attracted to girls who are a little bit bitchy/edgy, with the emphasis on a little bit...

throwawaymusur · 2020-07-18T19:26:37+00:00

Yeah I guess, bitchy girls can be fun cuz I like to fuck with em and tease em

daniel_shalome · 2020-07-18T19:41:37+00:00

Tame em not main em

Title	Is it true that guys prefer bitchy girls over nice girls?
Author	bubblesfrompowerpuff
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Date	July 18, 2020 7:07 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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