Ok so I’ve always been a good looking dude and apparently had good charisma, I was just completely oblivious. My early failures with women were caused by missing signals more than anything else (like girls sitting in my bed leaning in for kisses when I was 16, girls sleeping in my bed multiple times and hinting, like that oblivious). However those missed opportunities created a bit of a “nice guy” complex and I was rejected fairly often for about a good couple years. You know what got me rejected? Those books, articles, trying to be something I wasn’t, etc... They were poison

My main point of advice may sound silly, but fuck all the rules. I read 100s of articles and books and NONE of them helped. Then I just said “fuck it” and created my own style. You have to build that inner confidence first. No article will help you until you have the confidence to create your own style

There is no step by step guide on how to seduce somebody. It’s different for everybody and what works for one person won’t work for another. My sarcastic, witty, innuendo based style wouldn’t work for somebody who’s style is aggressively funny and straight forward yet we both are pulling the same results

Drop the articles, drop the books, develop your inner confidence and your own style. That’s my best advice. Also never be mad a woman for rejecting you. Resentment repels (again this is coming from somebody who could be considered a natural looks wise and even personality wise if I wasn’t too oblivious to realize obvious signals like girls leaning into me on my bed when I was 16 so take it with a grain of salt)