Disqualifying women

Murfdigidy · 2020-04-18T19:36:35+00:00

Negging is unnecessary in the game of seduction, ive had it fail just as much as its worked. If I'm going to use a technique I need something more of a sure thing rather than hit or miss. 99% of girls love teasing. Other techniques that are more effective for your game to practice is body language (the way you carry yourself) , eye contact, and kino. All way more effective than Negging. Focus on those rather than disqualification.

earsurgery9 · 2020-04-18T18:41:15+00:00

Don't forget it only works on women who are attracted to you

Many people try negging and disqualifying a girl (who isn't attracted to him) after he opens her in a bar and then straight away he is like 'I'm not sure about you'/'you and me wouldn't get along' etc etc and she just basically agrees and tells him to have a good night and ejects lol

Similarly with 'negs'. Great to use to tease a girl who thinks you're hot. But Neg some hot young girl in a club straight after you open her when you aren't her type and watch what happens lol. HInt: It's not like in the books and manuals!

smoothmax · 2020-04-18T18:29:24+00:00

Be truthfully skeptical. You don't have to say out loud what you're thinking but just by thinking it, you can let it show on your face.

You could be thinking,

"Are you just a cock tease?"

"Are those tits real?"

"Are you a bit too chubby?"

"If I get your number are you gonna ghost me?"

"Are you a psycho bitch?"

Chicks have great intuition. If you're desperate, skeptical, or if you genuinely like her and think she's cool, she'll figure it out really quickly. The trick is to honestly acknowledge what you feel, and let your feelings show. In a respectful and calibrated way.

flvctvatnecmergitvr_ · 2020-04-18T23:06:06+00:00

That has never worked on me. If you don't like me, I will go away. If you lead me on to believe the listed things, I will not be inspired to change your mind, even if I find you attractive

TopMali · 2020-04-18T19:46:42+00:00

You know there isn’t a specific formula to get laid, what you say doesn’t really matter it’s the attitude that you bring to the table that stands out. You can do that “disqualification” trick but if you sound like a stuttering dork and don’t have the confidence to pull it, what do you think is going to happen?

The girl is just going to shrug her shoulders and go on with her day.

EcstaticOpening · 2020-04-19T05:48:02+00:00

Even if she’s attracted to you and down to clown, negging and disqualifying are emotional manipulation techniques that will not work on an attractive and confident woman.

SmoothPrimal · 2020-04-19T01:25:26+00:00

Teasing and disqualifying are totally different. You shouldn't look at either as "a trick" because they are both important parts of being an all around quality person.

Teasing is there so you don't bore yourself, or the people around you. Agreeing with everything is very boring. Teasing, playful disagreements, challenging people, playful deception, etc. are good ways to just have a dynamic conversation and make strong impressions towards the people you meet.

I did see disqualification as a trick as first, but the more I used it the more, the more I realized it's essential in anything.

For example, you want to ask a girl out on a date. You don't just ask anyone out on a date because you have standards. And you have standards because everything you do has value: your time, your commitment and your effort is valuable. If you give your time, your commitment and your effort thoughtlessly then you are not really high value.

Asking questions like the ones below imply that you don't just freely give away your time, commitment and effort without being too try hard:

Will you be there on time? (my time/commitment is valuable)
Hmm, I'm not sure if you're the type I'd want to take to an Italian restaurant. (My reputation is valuable)
Do you get what I'm saying? (My effort is valuable)
Can you even keep up? (My time, effort, commitment is valuable)
What do you do for fun? Tell me you don't just take long walks on the beach. (combination)
I like girls who physically express themselves. Show me your sex face (sex pre-selection - is it worth my time)

Just staying quiet can be a disqualification. If you are impressed by everything she says and give no resistance, you pretty much just let go of all your perceived value. This is one of the main reasons, bad boys often get hot girls. Assholes tend to be better at expressing their selfishness, which you don't need to be an asshole to express.

This is why being genuine is important. Know your value. Expect respect and don't be afraid to walk away. This will make disqualification become a natural part of interacting with people not just through words, but through your body language and demeanor.

ChelseaDagger14 · 2020-04-19T01:09:31+00:00

I don’t care about getting women to chase. I’d rather date/fuck them or whatever than waste time with high school games

Title	Disqualifying women
Author	Bonoechelon
Upvotes	12
Comments	19
Date	April 18, 2020 6:12 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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