Do girls mind being approached?

greenlight144000 · 2021-07-09T02:09:10+00:00

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loofyd · 2021-07-09T01:34:20+00:00

Kill that mindset

And then shoot it again after killing it

Its worthless - doesn't achieve anything at all, so kill it as many times as you have to, so that you can grown out of your limiting beliefs

For perspective, i have the same fear of approaching girls - what if a girl freaks out, berates me on my skin color or worse, tells lies to people that I'm harassing her and gets me beat.. That would be horrible

But that's just my dumbass mind / subconscious making me fear a possible risk.. A risk which I don't believe should happen but social conditioning has made me fearful (I didn't grow up in the west)

I don't think they should mind unless you're being an ass or an actual creep (taking up their personal space etc)

If they still mind - they have problems/insecurities for which you have nothing to feel bad about, that's their own shortcomings - remember they're just as much human and just as ordinary as you are

Good luck !

TheSunshineMan · 2021-07-09T01:53:09+00:00

I've cold approached thousands of women - nope they don't.

If you think you're creepy = you're creepy.

If you think you're a cool guy just having a quick conversation with someone = not creepy = normal.

auberus · 2021-07-09T01:57:01+00:00

Take it from an actual woman -- yes, a lot of the time we do mind.

blck_mambaa · 2021-07-09T15:03:20+00:00

If you’re attractive they will give you time of day and if you’re not attractive then you’re a creep, therefore don’t ask women on Reddit if they like being cold approached. If you’re “conventionally attractive” ie being white, tall, decent face and good body then you’re set and don’t got nothing to worry about.

thelambofdeth · 2021-07-09T02:41:42+00:00

They don't mind if you're attractive. If not you're just a creepy stranger bothering them.

CupOfHemlock · 2021-07-09T05:47:34+00:00

With that attitude you probably are. I imagine you come across as a creep with all that cowardice oozing out of you.

Various-Adeptness173 · 2021-07-09T06:16:19+00:00

You can’t generalize and put all women in the same basket. The answer is that some women do mind and others don’t mind. It’s as silly as asking “do girls like sushi?”. You’re going to run into both types of girls so just approach man. Who cares if they mind or if they don’t. If they’re not interested then you move on. It’s not illegal to talk to women.

AelfredRex · 2021-07-09T12:29:31+00:00

If they're not showing you any interest, don't. If they're staring at you with a big smile on their face, you're good to go. Anything in between is just a matter of degree.

Title	Do girls mind being approached?
Author	greenlight144000
Upvotes	2
Comments	15
Date	July 9, 2021 1:28 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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