Do people here still cold approach?

seduction-ModTeam · 2026-07-24T20:04:32+00:00

This post is being taken down because it violates Rule #4: Keep it civil and on topic.

Cold approach is not seduction.

letoiv · 2026-07-24T12:14:00+00:00

All the time, Reddit is just too cucked to be able to have any real discussion about it. If you post real experiences there's always some neckbeard who will tell you it's impossible and fake. How big are the gooner subs on here again? That's the default Reddit demog. These guys are not speaking to flesh and blood women but they do show up to subs like this to be angry about not speaking to flesh and blood women. There's also a healthy dose of women who pop over from TwoXChromosomes or something like that to angrily lecture the sub on what they "really" want

rocksos · 2026-07-24T08:37:05+00:00

I do it. I've written a number of FR's but i've realised that they're kind of pointless. People tend to just say 'stop doing all of that weird stuff and just be normal' (the 'weird' stuff is the stuff the books say to do and say lol). So you kind of can't win. I think people just want field reports where girls open you and hit on you

confused_8357 · 2026-07-24T07:57:23+00:00

Yes i do

Accomplished_Post525 · 2026-07-24T13:47:51+00:00

When the time and situation calls for it, yes.

Nonetheless as a guy with over 20 years of interest in the game or so, at least for the city I was in up until the last year, Gen Z has killed the shit out of cold approach since the pandemic. The old school vibe of going up to someone just to say hi doesnt really net you much as much anymore.

You always need some type of third party introduction, whether its from a friend or because you're a regular or consistently in that location.

Aka none of the women want to meet someone "organically" anymore despite a lot saying they want to meet someone the old fashioned way or have guys come talk to them again.

They want someone that is PREVETTED organic essentially. Its a very different strategy.

Before anyone asks this aint my first rodeo and Ive been with a slew of women before and taken them home the same night and such.

The game and strategy has changed a lot in the last few years.

duke_awapuhi · 2026-07-24T14:17:03+00:00

I see a lot on cold approaching in here. I mean heck, we have that guy posting daily with his absolutely ridiculous thing asking women if they think his hair should be long or short lol

CheesyWalnut · 2026-07-24T17:13:27+00:00

People who don’t cold approach just want to see more people saying it’s dead and impossible so they don’t think they’re missing anything misery loves company

allthatentrails · 2026-07-24T08:34:19+00:00

the whole community seems to do online stuff way more now. Other pickup forums and stuff i've read, it seems people are only getting laid with tinder etc. I guess it's just more efficient. You are 'approaching' many girls in an hour with just swiping. I guess there's really not any difference. The girls who swipe back are the same girls who would be receptive to your approach and visa versa

refreshingface · 2026-07-24T13:52:04+00:00

I don’t even think of it as cold approaching anymore.

You are just performing a function that you are supposed to do as a human being.

You are just talking to people you find interesting lol.

epimpstyle · 2026-07-24T09:38:35+00:00

Yes, I do. I've even filmed some videos with a spycam, but people say it's creepy, that I'm trying too hard, or that it has nothing to do with seduction because I'm not direct, or I was just lucky or that getting her number doesn't mean anything, and that I'm a weirdo hitting on girls in their 20s while I'm 45+... and all kinds of similar things.

I do these things in silence, without trying to prove anything to anyone. I'm not walking down the street hitting on them, but doing it in everyday life, especially at the supermarket, where there are tons of girls walking around and any approach feels totally normal.

Domingo_salut · 2026-07-24T14:22:37+00:00

WhoppAhForYaSISTA · 2026-07-24T16:29:46+00:00

The best approach is warm approach, your friend is talking to her friend. BOOM great opening to make conversation. Hanging out in the same group or social setting etc. when it comes to cold approach woman just want to feel safe. You almost always never lead with attraction or a compliment, as it’s sometimes hard to start conversation afterwards. However that can work. You really (as everyone says) just have to practice. I’ve been with over 40 woman romantically and still have anxiety over it sometimes lol.

Title	Do people here still cold approach?
Author	iamjakeD811
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Date	July 24, 2026 7:55 AM UTC (3 weeks ago)
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