First cold approach (I guess?)

dryempire · 2022-03-04T18:44:33+00:00

Straight to the point and it worked. Enjoy the payoff of having the balls to do it!

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-03-04T19:20:55+00:00

Good for trying, but the approach isn’t really seductive at all.

There was no game because you barely asked a question (her number) and the name and that’s it.

That’s not really a solid interaction, no game, no comfort, no sexualization, no sexual tension, nothing…

The most likely outcome as a result is that the girl never goes out with you.

Psychological_Hunt24 · 2022-03-04T18:47:21+00:00

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NineteenAD9 · 2022-03-04T18:48:25+00:00

That's all you have to do.

Worst case,, if you can't think of anything special to say, just approach, be confident, and be direct. Too many people here are under some impression that you have to chat someone up for an hour to get a number.

Good job.

Commercial_Habit_923 · 2022-03-04T19:01:07+00:00

1 for 1 Congrats

BangaiiWatchman · 2022-03-04T19:23:57+00:00

Congrats man!

YoBeaverBoy · 2022-03-04T19:26:46+00:00

You did it exactly how it should be done. Congrats!

Carpsonian22 · 2022-03-04T20:25:28+00:00

You did good OP. I wish more guys would approach this way. Super simple and to the point :)

Liberaler · 2022-03-04T18:50:34+00:00

Good Joyce of words, seems natural! How you delivered them is more important of course
Maybe the conversation was a bit short. There is a risk she will not respond because of that, just because she has to little of you to work with. "A friendly guy approached me at the dinning hall ... but I know nothing about him ... hmm ... I have other options ..."
If she reacts positively (and only then) you should try to sit with her for a few minutes to have a longer conversation.

Hmmoklolthisisfine · 2022-03-04T19:36:12+00:00

Good job. It only gets easier from here.

Gab0Mon · 2022-03-05T03:52:58+00:00

you made it boy, it made me happy to read this

epimpstyle · 2022-03-05T13:19:14+00:00

Critiques:

- Your mission was to ask one girl for her number - why did you set such a high goal? Better to ask her a question and your mission be to receive an answer to your question. Do some baby steps until you ask her for her number.

- You interrupted the girl from lunch - this is not a good attitude (you are not a gentleman). It is good for your anxiety (it looks like you don't care what happens around you) but it is not nice. It is a very thin line between being rude and being an extrovert guy - be careful.

- you talk to her only because she is cute. You told her that she is cute, it is too straight but it is a debate whether the direct opener is good or the indirect one. If you are going like that to a girl she might think that you are doing the same with every cute girl (she is not special). I am a fan of the indirect approach, from my point of view you have a time frame until you tell her that she is cute instead of telling her from the beginning and she must choose straight away if she wants to talk to you or not. With an indirect approach, you have a chance to talk to her, it is never too late telling her that she is cute especially after you saw her personality.

Good points:

- you have the balls talking to a girl. It is very good for start :-)

Title	First cold approach (I guess?)
Author	Slippery_Weiner
Upvotes	48
Comments	34
Date	March 4, 2022 6:20 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/t6pbk0/first_cold_approach_i_guess/
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