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expectingrain · 2011-09-09T15:51:21+00:00

The grind begins? You open the set, then grind your penis on them?

Can you elaborate

DutchPUA · 2011-09-09T16:30:00+00:00

for a second i thought I was in r/starcraft

frogma · 2011-09-09T16:30:14+00:00

I agree with all of this, but move logistics to the very beginning. If all you're doing is trying to get numbers or make out, that's cool, but if you're going for more, have your logistics planned out ahead-of-time. Have a Plan A and Plan B at least (ideally, try to have a million different options). If you have to, make sure to talk to some other people beforehand to see if they'd be cool with you staying at their place (in any situation where it might not work to go to your place or hers). Not only that, but fuckin focus on those logistics and make it happen. I always have success when my logistics are planned out and I push to make it happen. When I don't have success, it's cuz my logistics suck or I'm not pushing for anything.

What I usually do at bars is meet a girl/group, build some attraction (maybe make out with the girl if it's doable), and then leave. I'll go back to my friends or just open some more groups. Then I'll find another girl and do the same. Then another, and another, etc. Once I've chosen a few girls, I start focusing on them some more. I'll go back and re-open, build more attraction/comfort, and I'll either try to bounce with her or bail again (depending on her receptivity, and the other girls, and what my friends are doing, and the logistics). I just continuously do that with the girls until I've picked the best one. At bars, that's just standard procedure, and it's pretty fuckin easy to pull off (at least at college bars).

Also watch out with the kino stuff. There's no reason to follow the Escalation Ladder if you're gauging the girl and vibing with her. You can skip straight to "heavy" kino if the situation calls for it.

Edit: My bad, I didn't read the last part of the post. Yeah, you can skip through various steps depending on the situation.

kanji_sasahara · 2011-09-09T17:35:24+00:00

Thank you for these steps, shall implement them tonight when I hit the nearest bar. If I manage to get a girl, I'll do the whole change venue to a club... maybe. Depends how drunk I am.

pua_inception · 2011-09-09T18:11:06+00:00

Let me know how well this outline works. Looks very promising. I'm actually assembling one to help me work through AA during day game.

notlurkinganymoar · 2011-09-09T20:27:07+00:00

Nice, basic outline of the basic steps. I'm sure this will help some guys. Thanks.

Sed5 · 2011-09-09T23:07:34+00:00

This is AWESOME

WolfInTheField · 2011-09-10T02:00:35+00:00

Tired as shit now, but it's been saved. It all looks so easy on paper.

5oclock5hadow · 2011-09-10T03:34:54+00:00

great post

ehbeeseedee · 2011-09-09T18:46:49+00:00

I have this problem too. I open a set - I call these sets "nests" - and stay with them for the night. I call them nests because I become too fond and comfortable with the people I meet and I don't feel like leaving the nest. If I do leave the nest though, it's always great to have somewhere to return to. Of course, I'm talking about flying solo here.

Marcob10 · 2011-09-09T16:48:24+00:00

TIL some guys are routed like machines when approaching girls.

Relax and fucking have fun.

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Title	From Open to Close
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Date	September 9, 2011 3:48 PM UTC (14 years ago)
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