Yes - hello and good morning everyone (or good afternoon/evening, depending on where you are in the world).

I'm finally at a point where I have a solid rotation of dates.

I'm really happy with this and cannot stress how amazing abundance can be for your mind, soul and spirit. There is something to be said for absolutely just going all-in with one girl and forming a really deep connection (I've been in relationships before), but at this point in my life that's not 100% what I want or maybe I just haven't found her yet.

With abundance, I feel more confident, I'm less outcome-dependent and I'm more... me. Less head-y, and worried about what I'm going to say and just more 'authentic' in some ways. I've also noticed I take more risks with what's 'socially-acceptable.' A girl at work asked me what music I was into and I winked at her and said 'whatever you're into' and she melted. I didn't say this in a beta way, I was flirting.

I digress.

I've been experimenting with a few things as of late. I've just started to be bluntly honest with women. I think there are articles out there saying that this is 'dark art seduction' stuff, but honestly, it never crept into my mind that this was a 'move' or a 'technique' I was doing.

I'll explain.

I've had a few girls ask me what my plans are whilst we've been on the date, that week. She'll be forthcoming about plans and when I have started to give half-ass vague responses like 'oh, busy this day, that day, etc' avoiding the subject that I had multiple dates on I just started to think, f**k that.

'I won't lie to you, I've got a few more dates lined up, but don't worry this is the most fun I've had so far.'

Attraction went through the roof. I felt as if they were qualifying themselves to me after, the air completely changed and were 100% more physical with me. Girls hate to lose. Bearing in mind, the dates were already going well, but this just kind of upped the ante and we went into a different gear. I felt like otherwise our dates could've strayed into friendship territory.

Do not be fooled. Women want what other women want. If a man is desirable, it makes her feel sexy as hell that she won him.

I think there is merit to still being a gentlemen. No woman I have come across wants a crass, rude, class-less guy; but they also don't want that fairy-tale romance we grew up thinking that's what they want.