Getting rejected for height

thetrainingarc · 2022-04-15T03:59:31+00:00

just keep it moving. Not every girl wants to have a foot difference in height. Just get your weight up (metaphorically, so work out, clean up nice, get your style right etc.) and date girls who aren't as shallow. I always found that girls with super specific standards or types are red flags in general, and they'll be eager to jump ship if they happen to fit the type better than you

goodluck

HorusCok · 2022-04-15T04:21:06+00:00

Same girls will be begging for you in 10 years

Woujo · 2022-04-15T03:50:43+00:00

Have you actually been rejected for your height or did women say a bunch of shit to fuck with your self esteem?

5_7pickup · 2022-04-15T04:41:41+00:00

Lol its not your height. You just want to blame it on height.

How do you explain all the shorter guys who find success?

If you and i were at a club, i would 100% get more results than you and Im shorter.

Rebeccajp · 2022-04-15T05:46:01+00:00

It sounds like you’ve only tried to date girls from your school, but there are so many other girls. I would say just find other girls; we don’t all have the same preferences. I’m 5’4 and I’ve dated men who are my same height, and I’ve been comfortable with it.

JosLetz · 2022-04-15T04:17:27+00:00

Sorry to hear that. In a few years you will realize how immature are the girls you asked out. In real life, how tall we are does not matter. For the time being, I would suggest you continue to enjoy life and that you select more scrupulously/carefully the girls you ask out.

2022-04-15T04:28:26+00:00

Not every girl wants giants. I'm dating a girl who is about an inch taller than me. (I'm 5'11" and she is 6'). She's dated guys even shorter in the past, her ex was 5' 8". And i've dated another girl taller than me before too (I've got a type). Get good at sex and be strong so you can pick her up and being 5'9" won't be an issue.

My mom is slightly taller than my dad too. But my dad is a strong man who is capable and goes after what he wants. He's only 5'6".

You're average global height, that means many men with your genetics have procreated. Quit complaining and get to fucking.

Secret-Historian101 · 2022-04-15T06:25:06+00:00

Be 5"6,

Maleficent_Sky8774 · 2022-04-15T05:05:41+00:00

Improve other things about yourself. Career, artistic endeavors, style, wide range of interests. Add an inch or two with thicker soled shoes. Women can be cruel about height and it’s a prejudice that you will experience your entire life. It can impact how much you make in the future and increase threats of random violence. In the future, if it remains a challenge consider surgery to improve your chances sexually and in relationships. Friend of mine added 6 inches. it was painful but he thinks it was the best decision of his life.

Hook_me_up · 2022-04-15T07:12:14+00:00

Height doesn't matter.

pickledmonkeybrains · 2022-04-15T08:10:57+00:00

I have the feeling your pretty young, kids in school usually just try and pick at your confidence.

Height doesn't actually matter much in dating from my point of view I'm like 5'10? and dated guys who were 5'6 5'7 maybe shorter? One was like shoulder height 🤷

Even my current partner of 3 years was shorter than me when I first started dating him. I like to wear heels even though I'm tall, I end up being well over 6'

In highschool and middle school a lot of people told me I was too tall and men wouldn't date me, I even had a date refuse to dance with me because I towered over him in heels🤣

But I found that shorter men ended up being the most comfortable dating me.

I think a lot of tall guys feel that it's what makes them masculine, the moment I pop up over them they freak out🙄

And a lot of girls in school were insecure about dating guys who were shorter than them because they felt they'd be laughed at which is stupid.

People feel insecure about themselves and try to project those insecurities onto you.

If anything my advice is go for a really tall girl 🤷 they are probably just as fed up with the weird height bullshit, they are probably going to be more receptive.

Obviously not a guarantee but im just saying, worth a shot.

JDCalifornia19 · 2022-04-15T03:26:34+00:00

Time to bust out the Heelies lmao. But honestly, you could wear padding in your shoes if people are really giving you shit. And as far as long term relationships go, no one worthwhile will care about immutable factors like being above-average height, you’re valid man.

stephanienyc108 · 2022-04-15T03:49:18+00:00

Get on the wrestling team

CaptAndersson · 2022-04-15T06:16:29+00:00

If girls want a dude who's taller than 5'9", then I must be the fucking magically midget at an impressive 5'7".

Tell them that you require that your ladies be a size 1 or smaller and XYZ (list off a bunch of physical attributes).

Are you in high school? If you are, don't worry - it'll get better in college and in the real world. You'll have a much, MUCH larger ocean to choose from.

2022-04-15T06:35:20+00:00

Girls tend to be more and more picky. Still they rely very much on the opinion of their close and large social circle. Not gonna change that.

If you feel that is the case, approach girls that are much shorter than you. And stay casual, you really don't need to deal with such shallow expectations, just feel if she is interested in the first place.

Ok_Yogurtcloset_669 · 2022-04-15T08:39:32+00:00

How did you know they rejected you because of your height? Maybe you're not attractive. Or you're too nice.

Title	Getting rejected for height
Author	TheCollector228
Upvotes	2
Comments	35
Date	April 15, 2022 3:14 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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