Being shorter than other guys and same height as girls

Silver-Variation8903 · 2022-04-07T02:56:59+00:00

Sorry. If you’re 5’7-5’8 you have no excuse. I see many guys this height who have absolute babes as girlfriends.

If you’re low body fat, lean, good shape, abs, good face, charismatic, confident, then being 5’7 will not be a handicap worthy of a Reddit post.

RedditSucks4206969 · 2022-04-07T07:13:40+00:00

Im 5'5 decent face, lift weights. I get rejected for my height but most girls dont care so who gives a fuck

Robofrogg1 · 2022-04-07T11:02:26+00:00

I am so damn tired of all the ‘I am short waaah woe is me’ posts here. Like there literally is a new one every day. It’s easy to blame your height, because that means you don’t have to actually do anything except sit around and whine. But it’s not your height, it’s your attitude. No one wants to be with a mopey defeatist. So just stop it already.

Edit: and by the way, I’m 5’11, but I’m also 52, balding, wear glasses, I have a bad back, and I can barely pay my bills. But I have a beautiful, amazing girlfriend that loves and adores me. She thinks I’m hot as hell and always wants to be with me. Why? Because I’m confident, I work out, and above all, I have a upbeat, positive attitude. She has told me many times my attitude alone is the biggest reason she loves me so much. I don’t get angry, I don’t get upset when bad things happen. I look for the silver linings and am ALWAYS positive, cheerful, and upbeat. My point is, stop making excuses, bro. It’s NOT your height that’s holding you back. It’s YOU.

spicy_simba · 2022-04-07T05:28:38+00:00

Hey there buddy,

At any height, You could be the best version of yourself and not have girls attracted to you in a moment of life.

At that point it's a choice what to do with it,

Option 1 is to let it eat you up,

with comparing yourself to others and looking at your "differences" and blaming it on that. "Oh he is blond and am brunette" "oh his middle finger is longer than his ring finger thats why" "oh his forearms are hairy that's why"

This is a well without a pit, and one can dwell and spiral down for the rest of their life, the same reasoning applies for career, fame, wealth...

Option 2 is to accept attraction is out of our control, but enjoying life is

To accept that you being the best version of yourself is enough to enjoy life, to accept and to cherish yourself, to look forward to enrich your life with new experiences and deep connections. To still do efforts to meet people and ask girls out, and to accept all outcomes ad they are, to not take it too seriously, not obsess about it and to enjoy the process

duce3612 · 2022-04-07T02:08:13+00:00

Man heres some advice. Im 6'4, i know you might think that guarantees me pussy. I would say it does open the door a little wider for me, but I still have to take action. I still have to be confident, funny, lift, dress good. You still have to take action. You arent handicap short status. Contril what you can, always present yourself with cinfidence. Even fake confidence shows as real confidence on the outside. If i could go back to school now being 34, I would have a complete dgaf attitude. Thats the number one thing you can have bro. Dont fear rejection fear not trying. Control what you can and i promise you tyere are plenty plenty plenty of hot women that wont mind that you arent over 6ft. Women dont even know what 6 feet is lol.

miguetran · 2022-04-07T10:00:25+00:00

''Being short fucks my confidence too and even if I was confident, the girl would pick the taller guy. Don’t know what to do, and help is appreciated I’m getting to a point where I’m depressed''

This is the core issue here. Not you being short.

So what if you are short? Doesn't fucking matter. You live your own life, not according to what media told you what is attractive and what is not. I am your height and I have no issues attracting women.

Women are first and foremost attracted to CONFIDENCE and FEARLESSNESS. And you lack both cuz you are a wimp who follows other people's opinions on what is attractive. MASCULINITY = you are a leader = you DONT follow others' opinions. Unless you are able to be masculine and grounded in yourself, forget about attracting girls, even if you were 6 foot 6.

Looks are only bonus.

jessiepc145 · 2022-04-07T03:19:47+00:00

Bro being short has been nothing but amazing for my game.

5_7pickup · 2022-04-07T10:45:56+00:00

I pull all the time. Refer to my field reports.

GripIsEverything · 2022-04-07T05:41:29+00:00

I don't understand why height is such a big thing in the west. I've seen so many insecure dudes complaining about their heights. Maybe it's the same thing as skin colour is in my country.

BangaiiWatchman · 2022-04-07T02:45:13+00:00

Yeah I started to notice this like 2 years ago. That I was shorter than most men but only slightly taller than most women. It’s not a huge deal but I started buying elevator shoes from Dons Shoe Shop online (look it up), and I love them.

They give me a two inch boost which is perfect and they’re comfortable and stylish. Expensive tho, but I highly recommends

cass2769 · 2022-04-07T22:10:14+00:00

Unfortunately this is just one of those things you’ll have to learn to accept about yourself since you can’t change it. Some women will choose taller guys but those are not the women for you so don’t worry about it.

Fwiw I once dated a guy about my same height and it was great bc I didn’t have to get on my tiptoes to kiss him. It was nice to be eye to eye.

Sirmamzi · 2022-06-13T06:50:51+00:00

Im 170 cm and I completely understand every single word you said king.

Listen Im not gonna give you fake hope, it's more difficult for us to get a gf, but it's not impossible. You just gotta find a shorter girl.

Life for other guys is like "skyrim" but for us, it's fucking Dark souls!

Title	Being shorter than other guys and same height as girls
Author	TheCollector228
Upvotes	2
Comments	80
Date	April 7, 2022 1:47 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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