Going on a first date with a Sahara desert dry girl. How should I handle it ? And what should I expect ?

Mc_Dickles · 2024-06-06T15:49:41+00:00

Some people are completely different in person. Unfortunately I cannot prepare you. She might be super bubbly in person. You’ll find out and act accordingly.

UnderstandingEvery44 · 2024-06-06T18:43:16+00:00

I married a girl like this. Worst texter of all time but a 10/10 in person personality

Been together 8 years in nov

gtaIIIstan · 2024-06-06T18:23:24+00:00

She doesn't even know what she's looking for.

This is a hint that you're not running the right kinds of interactions with women. Because you should never be asking a woman you barely know "why are you on here?" or "what is your goal for Tinder?" Instead, as a man, you should be telegraphing WHAT YOU want through your actions. Then interested women will meet that and disinterested women will fade away. But having a stilted conversation about "intentions" with someone you don't even know and who isn't even invested enough to tell you the "truth" is not the move.

As for the rest, go on the date. You're an unreliable narrator at this point and just need to go on dates and learn how to move with women better. Primarily, you need to focus more on being fun and playful and bringing value to conversations by sparking their emotions, not just relying on boring logic. Then later on, when you have a bunch of experiences under your belt, then you can more accurately vet women beforehand.

CommercialGarbage656 · 2024-06-06T18:43:33+00:00

Could be a scam. Such scams are happening in my country

TheMuthafrickenMan · 2024-06-06T16:46:43+00:00

Be prepared for a dude to be waiting for you

SnooBunnies9918 · 2024-06-06T23:40:47+00:00

TIPS FOR BEING KIDNAPPED AND THROWN IN A TRUNK.

1) Attempt to kick one of the taillights out and wave a hand or foot out frantically. Someone will hopefully call the cops.

2) If there is an exhaust leak you will get real sleepy, and fortunately, you'll never feel a thing.

PrinceDestin · 2024-06-06T23:02:41+00:00

Make her Niagara Falls wet duhhh

TRTGymBro1 · 2024-06-06T17:58:59+00:00

I was with you until the very last sentence in your post, which tells me you are already attached to an outcome you want and you have lost one way or another.

You have to get out of that mindset that you are the lucky one to go out with her, that you have to entertain her, that you have to get her interested. The only way to truly master the game of dating is to have very crystal clear criteria and standards for what type of women you will let into your life.

Chasing after some chick with the personality of a cardboard box just shows how needy and desperate you are and that you put her sex on a pedestal. And she knows this. And you know it.

You are sitting there worried about blowing your chances with her, when you should be thinking about how she’s already blowing her chances with you.

Scheefgaan · 2024-06-06T18:39:06+00:00

I’d keep an open mind and consider she might just be a bad texter/shy but i agree with the other comments here that you shouldn’t make the first date too pricey.

Also, trust your gut. If something feels off, it probably is.

ncsakira · 2024-06-06T23:34:39+00:00

Usually this kind of people. If they are booked and will let you entertain her until you fuck up. Or if they really like you they let you do anything. But you got to be in charge.

daddyvow · 2024-06-07T06:25:03+00:00

Wouldn’t be surprised if she ghosts you sadly

Dandys3107 · 2024-06-07T12:59:08+00:00

You ultimate objective is not about talking. Just make your moves that does not include sharp and constructive conversation. Maybe she will open up when you get closer with each other.

Kylearean · 2024-06-07T12:59:38+00:00

I've had this exact experience and she was completely different in person. Like I had to verify that she was the same person I was talking to. And she definitely was not dry.

UnusualRedditor · 2024-06-06T18:21:45+00:00

Be prepared to walk away, if its dry to begin with then it’s probably gonna be dry in person. Don’t pay for anything other than a cheap drink or an ice cream. She’s most likely not that interested and is going out to move away from boredom. Good luck pal

Careful-House6328 · 2024-06-06T15:43:36+00:00

Why do you even waste time on girls that suck? Because she has a couple hot photos online? Good luck

Title	Going on a first date with a Sahara desert dry girl. How should I handle it ? And what should I expect ?
Author	Only-Cryptographer54
Upvotes	5
Comments	18
Date	June 6, 2024 3:41 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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