Good timing is a factor no one mentions, but plays an important role in seduction

FirmGuitar5411 · 2025-01-23T15:39:49+00:00

You forgot to add meeting girls at the right time that leads to getting laid. I went on a first date and we ended up skipping the date going to a parking lot, making out, then grabbing some food and fucking for the rest of the night. Good timing is the cause of this I think

Smitty-TBR2430 · 2025-01-23T16:30:12+00:00

Agree. Finding the one gal in the right situation and at the right time is so much better than “spam approaching” as you said.

Too many guys don’t assess the situation — time of day, location, and the gal’s demeanor — then get pissy over the rejection when it was a lost cause from the beginning.

Don’t hit on a gal while standing in line at the bank or the post office. It’s okay to hit on a gal in line at the grocery store. (I hit on my gal at the checkout at a 7-Eleven store & that was 6 years ago! We’re still together.)

Just_Natural_9027 · 2025-01-23T15:58:01+00:00

Good timing is often mitigated by looks though. Years ago I read the dumbest book ever in the hey day of PUA but it ended up being the book that brought me the most success because it focused on looks so heavily. This was extremely rare back then.

Women being genuinely attracted to you is a far better and more satisfying approach than spam approaching a ton of women.

MSHUser · 2025-01-23T15:43:52+00:00

I agree it's like a dance. You gotta develop the skills so you're prepared to use them when the time comes.

Fearless_Isopod_3562 · 2025-01-24T04:28:45+00:00

Once you’ve handled basic SMV and game, timing is literally what matters.

Aslakthedark · 2025-01-24T13:00:18+00:00

Agree. This is why patience is such an important skill to acquire. Many times i have succeeded just by waiting a little bit and gathering more information, then striking when the time is right. Well not right, to be specific, there is no ”right time window” but there are better times and worse times. Better times you can work your way through the process.

Jameson2105 · 2025-01-24T04:30:26+00:00

This is true and most of it is out of your hands. Just get out there and try…

PeterLamb87 · 2025-01-24T06:27:49+00:00

Timing is one of the most if not the most important aspect of seduction, when and where to seduce a girl is a cornerstone skill, its the difference between getting a girl into bed or getting into the HR office or a Pua cringe video.

Loud_Contract_689 · 2025-01-24T15:33:59+00:00

For same day hookups with a stranger, yeah, it requires a mountain of good timing and luck, as well as a ton of effort on your part to approach a large number of girls.

Intelligent-Roll-763 · 2025-01-25T19:15:42+00:00

You're right but this should be taken more as a sign that rejection is irrelevant. It's not to be taken personally. So keep improving and keep trying your best.

Title	Good timing is a factor no one mentions, but plays an important role in seduction
Author	Smart_Inspector3705
Upvotes	51
Comments	21
Date	January 23, 2025 3:32 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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