How are strong silent men Alphas?

sasquatchington · 2021-04-17T01:56:29+00:00

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loudmouth222 · 2021-04-17T02:55:08+00:00

Silence and stoicism can provide mystery. Women love mystery.

Captain_w00t · 2021-04-17T11:26:32+00:00

This is plain bullshit. I’m socially skilled, outgoing, etc... I have my success with girls/women. I just lead interactions organically, but that’s mostly a passive process (people follows me for whatever reason) even if I’m not the kind of person who enjoys that position.

I totally reject these crappy labels of alpha/beta bullshit, they’re lame and idiotic.

True_Music48 · 2021-04-17T04:45:24+00:00

They choose when to talk and they are silent around people who would try to outdo them so they can avoid pointless competition. They don’t want to deal with other guys trying to outdo them when they know they’re on top. The loud alphas choose to deal with the guys who try to outdo them. They like how it feels to stay on top. The silent alphas ignore them. Ignoring them makes the silent alpha feel at peace. The loud alpha stands his ground against competing betas and really stands his ground with competing betas and stays on top by using his voice cause he knows he’s on top, and the quiet alpha ignores the competing betas or competing alphas cause he knows he’s on top.

Ziondizl · 2021-04-17T05:22:11+00:00

Because when they aren't speaking they are ralking with body language and when they do speak, their words are filled with charisma and charm

Shadow__Account · 2021-04-17T15:46:23+00:00

I would say I am the type, I am def not socially outgoing, but I am usually in control, so in a group a lot of people will still look at me for validation, see if I laugh about their jokes and start qualifying to me. I feel like socially outgoing doesn’t have much to do with being in control ,leading, having high perceived value and being emotionally stable (being alpha imo) So you can be comfortable and confident without being high energy.

MrManwithNoName2021 · 2021-04-17T02:32:43+00:00

Quiet usually means thinking, and thinking deep and hard.

VanessaChaland · 2021-04-17T02:35:44+00:00

You "learned" wrong...

Live_Requirement4294 · 2021-04-17T05:46:44+00:00

I feel sensitive and guys able to communicate are the alphas because we are less common

Ladyinblack87 · 2021-04-18T01:15:07+00:00

There’s something in the eyes. In the voice. Solid calm confidence. He doesn’t need to raise his voice to be heard ever.

BendedLipstick · 2021-04-18T13:02:43+00:00

My boyfriend is definitely a quiet but mysterious silent Alpha. And it’s definitely what drew my attention to him. We were young and partying a lot, and the men getting super loud and drunk around my boyfriend who was drinking too, but keeping his composure, stood out much more. He was so mysterious to me, and overall caught my attention much more than anyone else. It also helped that he’s extremely attractive.

OreOscar1232 · 2021-04-18T22:33:51+00:00

Know yourself, accept what you’re capable of both negatively and positively. I watched a Jordan Peterson video and took into account what he said. Now whether or not you agree with some of the things he says, you have to watch this video. It’s basically about accepting ones dark side and understand how much of a terrible person you could be then and only then you understand what being a “good person” means. This in a broader sense, to me, means accept who you are and what you know. Accept who you are, don’t fuck with people that will only fuck you up, find your group, people that support and understand you, become the best version of yourself type shit. Then when you fuck with who you are, then you can approach the woman your way. I find the stoic thing is tied to general intellect and not being inept to problems and such. The silent thing usually indicates some sort of high intellectual reasoning, observing the crowd and such. The strong thing can be physical or mental. It implies one has ones shit together and know what and who they are. Please anyone I’m interested on input to this and what you think.

Title	How are strong silent men Alphas?
Author	Scared_Box4941
Upvotes	10
Comments	36
Date	April 17, 2021 1:53 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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