How are you guys doing with the cold approaches?

mattygroves3 · 2019-10-02T03:32:59+00:00

It's pretty variable. Some girls respond very well and laugh at my jokes and play along. But on the other hand I've had girls give me a once over and LITERALLY run away. Best advice is to not get discouraged or frustrated by whatever happens. Keep shooting your shot

FairAnalyst · 2019-10-02T12:42:43+00:00

They're usually fine with it. If you're going direct, such as with a good compliment, its almost going to go well more often than not. There's absolutely nothing wrong with complimenting strangers.

Like why would a girl be a dick to someone who just told her her shoes looked amazing? That would an asshole move.

itsfun2Bdumb · 2019-10-02T04:36:34+00:00

Never had a bad experience, just alot of awkwardness on my part. Worst case scenario the girl pretends your not there and doesn’t acknowledge you, I’ve never been called a creep in person or had a drink thrown in my face, women are a lot more polite than I would have thought.

I’ve also gotten to date some women way out of my league, it’s 100% worth it and I’ve never regretted a single approach even the ones where I get shot down instantly.

ChrisDarmount · 2019-10-02T14:33:56+00:00

Some girls are going to be glad you approached and some aren’t.

If you listen to the the girls who go around saying they don’t like when guys approach then you are letting them ruin it for all the girls who want to be approached.

A big part of this challenge is to move past the impulse to please people. To be liked by everyone and behave in a way that everyone finds acceptable. That impulse is a huge thing holding men, especially nice men back.

To miss out on finding the love of your life because you want to please everyone and behavior in an “acceptable” way is not a nice thing, it’s a cowardly thing.

AFL-NOEL · 2019-10-02T04:23:11+00:00

Brother for me the feeling of “what if I would have said something to her?” feels WAY WORSE than anything a girl can say or do when I approach.. so my advice is approach everyone you are attracted to.. if you’re in a good mood/energy/vibe and are playful with it not being attached to the outcome either way, you will never come off as a creep.. you will come off as the fun guy who went after what he wanted and wasn’t attached to the outcome either way.. because that’s who you are. Approach whoever you want brother, and have fun with it all.. here’s a new daygame video in Miami Beach Florida for added inspiration.. sending you positive vibes! https://youtu.be/TfetHsF8R-I

judahman8 · 2019-10-03T09:40:18+00:00

They react directly according to if you are doing something right or wrong. For instance when I say a good opinion opener followed by a false time constraint I get good really good responses %95 of the time. But that is just the opener. You are being tested forever and she is responding to how well you are doing forever.

ComplexProjection · 2019-10-02T02:45:29+00:00

You should not care about the girl’s reaction. If she likes you, your approach will make you attractive. If she does not, she will think you are a creep. That’s on her.

Go talk to her, be nice and genuine. If she does not enjoy your company, next her and go for the next one.

Title	How are you guys doing with the cold approaches?
Author	Novatonavila
Upvotes	10
Comments	24
Date	October 2, 2019 1:59 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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