How do Guys get SECOND Date?

ROBYoutube · 2024-03-07T23:42:36+00:00

How can I know if they're enjoying the date or they're here just for free food & drinks?

Well, for starters, stop going on first dates that will cost you $120. Try coffee.

My question is, what makes a date GREAT

When you have a genuine connection with each other.

Is there a way to gauge their interest towards me?

Yes. Ask yourself 2 questions: Am I having fun talking to this person? Does it look like she's having fun talking to me?

If the coffee goes well, ask her on a second date.

bert_cj · 2024-03-08T02:11:32+00:00

No dinner dates. Just go on the first date with the intentions of getting to know her. Then ask for a second one

Dandys3107 · 2024-03-08T07:31:48+00:00

If you spend so much money on a date, it subconsciously feels that you are compensating your lack of interesting traits with money. Girls should be after spending time with you and interested in getting intimate, and these are free. Date circumstances should be but a fertile background for escalation, make it easily affordable to show another attractive trait of being financially efficient.

About getting more intimate with a girl, you need to keep building that tension. Expose your attractive masculine physique and character, keep getting closer to her, make your conversation more intimate, gradually reach for your purpose maintaining that playful vibe and confident attitude. If you want a second date, girl needs to long for it. Make up some interesting suggestions for next meetings and future, indicate that you have lots of other things to provide, show that high energy and rich lifestyle that you lead, that she would have to aspire to to keep up with you. Don't get into conclusions and pull out your best cards in the beginning, but keep feeding her imagination and hunger for more.

SnooHesitations4922 · 2024-03-08T02:40:53+00:00

To get a second date u need to physically escalate immediately during the first date to demonstrate u have no intention of being friends with her. It don't have to end with sex but it needs to come close enough to where she has a goal in mind for that second date.

5hr00m · 2024-03-08T09:05:08+00:00

Don’t waste time dating girls where you feel attraction level is low. Many girls are “serial daters”, they will date lot of guys they have low attraction for just to have some entertainment / validation.

Try to be intimate / have sex on first date. Girls won’t usually have sex with everyone on first date, if she has it with you she will feel invested and wants to date you more to explore if you two have relationship potential.

TRTGymBro · 2024-03-08T01:29:08+00:00

You are living in their reality and you are just a servant to female whims. You will always end up used and manipulated. Until you let go of these regarded ideas that you have to do what women are telling you they want, you will have zero success.

Second, you seem hyper focused on the outcome and sex with them, which essentially makes them the prize. Because they have what you want and can choose to give it to you or not.

creamyturtle · 2024-03-08T14:15:11+00:00

I went on a first date last night and before she left she asked me when we should schedule the next one. you just be yourself and have fun and everything else will come

TheGoldenB00k3 · 2024-03-08T15:27:28+00:00

On a side note, this dude is scoring more than I ever will 👏

ElevationKey · 2024-03-09T03:01:01+00:00

I've been going thru this subreddit to find topic ideas and this is a great question tbh. I'm gonna use it as a video topic for my next yt vid

Standard-Tourist9256 · 2024-03-09T14:57:32+00:00

try to avoid dinner/movie first dates since there’s not much room to learn about the other person. Nyc has SO many hidden gems you can take people on dates to for cheap.

NoMoassNeverWas · 2024-03-08T08:16:13+00:00

In my opinion, which may be unpopular but kissing must happen on first date otherwise 2nd date is a problem.

I don't know how else you establish sexual attraction which is necessary to keep it going.

Title	How do Guys get SECOND Date?
Author	Slashe3r
Upvotes	17
Comments	39
Date	March 7, 2024 11:22 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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