These past 5 months I've been trying so hard to find a girl whos at least a 4.5-5/10 whos willing to be a FWB or GF so I can get real consistent experience and break out of beginner hell but things never really seem to go my way ever. Have had some amazing dates but the girls end up slow fading. Had a few dates where I didn't kiss the girl at all. But this was the minority and I don't think chicks were ever really physically attracted to me anyway.

Have been on a total of 7-10 dates and have had 3 lays that took hundreds of approaches and many matches on dating apps to get. Also for more context im 5'10 25%bf and have an above avg face.

Any advice on how I can get a relationship/FWB as fast as possible? I already feel ashamed of telling people that my first relationship was at 23 (assuming I can even get one before I turn 24 in November). Cant go another year without having any relationship experience. And I already know you guys are gonna say “Oh bro you don’t need to follow an arbitrary/societal rule book on when you should lose ur v card and when u should get in a relationship! Do shit on your own timing!”

Which sounds good on paper but y’all forget that women (esp the attractive ones) are gonna expect a guy my age to have hit common dating milestones and have a certain amount of experience. Not to mention that women by this age are already going to have a lot of experience. Best case scenario they were in 1 relationship w a beta in college/HS, worse case they are alpha widowed and have hooked up with players and Chads. And if I can’t exceed her past frame of reference it’s basically over for me. Which is already kind of coming to fruition now in a way despite the fact that ive dated girls in the 3-5 range who had 1-2 bodies and/or haven’t been in a relationship before and things still never work out.