how do people even make conversation in loud bars and clubs?

ElevationKey · 2024-03-23T13:31:54+00:00

Use the least amount of words to get your message across. Focus on how you say it. It's better to look charming and seductive while she cant hear you, than having you open ur mouth tryna scream in her ear so she can hear you. In loud clubs, your vibe, looks, and confidence do the pulling anyways. The words just seal the deal even more if you're slick with it. If you're reaaaaaally slick with it, you can take her to the washroom stall and you'll be able to hear each other fine in there ;)

Ordinary_Yam1866 · 2024-03-23T14:55:29+00:00

Use it as an excuse to get closer.

7CloudMirage · 2024-03-23T15:41:01+00:00

also super loud clubs tend to have super hot girls, the struggle is real

DaygameCode · 2024-03-23T15:47:38+00:00

It’s not about having a conversation, it’s about dancing, being physical and doing body language gestures that trigger primal instincts, and make out. It’s all about what you do, and how you are perceived, not what you say to them because they won’t hear, they won’t remember, and they don’t care.

Osiris_Raphious · 2024-03-23T18:02:11+00:00

WHAT?

-Twyptophan- · 2024-03-23T15:31:00+00:00

Gotta lean in close, as long as it's not mega loud. If they're receptive to talking with you, it can work out. I'm much taller than most women at the bar so I lean in too to talk- the average guy is like 5 inches taller than the average girl so this should apply to a lot of situations

If it's way too loud I just go off dancing and IOIs. I generally don't go for like super loud clubs but sometimes I do. Maybe try to move to a different section of the club where it's not so loud

ev3rm0r3 · 2024-03-23T19:30:23+00:00

They don't, my local bar does this and im constantly telling them to turn it down. I've even started bringing ear plugs and its too loud with those. They end up losing my business because I just leave because I can't take screaming at the topic of my lungs just trying to enjoy myself.

Basically go to coffee shop, find one with music in the background playing. And enjoy the conversation. F bars.

niisamavend · 2024-03-23T19:18:10+00:00

U wanna go somewhere more quiet xD

Fabulous_Papaya358 · 2024-03-23T17:09:14+00:00

Leave

epimpstyle · 2024-03-23T17:29:28+00:00

You can't have a conversation by yelling at each other, if that's the case, take her to a quiet place, otherwise leave.

SithLordJediMaster · 2024-03-23T21:24:17+00:00

I carry a Megaphone with me.

Or I use Dixie Cups.

berzerker5000 · 2024-03-24T00:28:51+00:00

I am near deaf in left ear so I lead them to talk into my right ear. Being deaf is sexy they like it, i tell them, I’m fuckin deaf lol. Panties drop no need for words.

calfshrug · 2024-03-24T04:00:47+00:00

You talk close, and get a lot of backs turned to you and looks of disgust if you're most guys

Title	how do people even make conversation in loud bars and clubs?
Author	7CloudMirage
Upvotes	47
Comments	17
Date	March 23, 2024 1:18 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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