How do you filter girls?

MikeAlphaGolf · 2022-01-25T01:35:55+00:00

First filter is attractiveness. You’re already doing that.

Second filter is interest. Spend your energy on those who are showing interest. It will make your whole experience easier and more enjoyable .

Delicious_Ad_1853 · 2022-01-25T02:36:58+00:00

You're right to be skeptical of women that aren't making an effort.

You need to lead, but you're only supposed to carry the first few minutes. If she doesn't get in the game, let her go. Your life is too valuable to waste it barking up the wrong trees.

Cookies993 · 2022-01-25T01:37:34+00:00

std::set<std::string> mySet{ "Attractive", "Unattractive", "Compatible", "Not compatible", "*Underage"};

auto filtered = FilterEraseIfGen(mySet, [](auto& elem) { return !elem.starts_with('*'); });

LandscapeClear1630 · 2022-01-25T05:11:25+00:00

You're not sparking her interest.

You need to be able to generate emotional spikes, that's why they aren't investing in the converasation.

Forget about filtering girls and focus on improving your conversational skills.

fourwindsgold · 2022-01-25T09:44:02+00:00

‘Connection’ from girls is based on your perceived SMV. If you aren’t the fucking man they won’t care to keep the conversation going

Cookies993 · 2022-01-25T01:40:17+00:00

For real tho, if there’s no connection, why bother, you don’t have a connection with everyone, and you shouldn’t either. The narrower your “filter” is, the better connections you have when you finally get a connection.

willgo-waggins · 2022-01-25T04:41:49+00:00

Personally my primary filter any more is if they either approach me or make it completely obvious that they want to be approached.

I am however older and have come to a point of life where I really don’t like wasting my time. I have far to many other interests, passions and productive things to do to waste time shooting shots with women who aren’t there. I stay to environments that are conducive to seeking out connections and getting together and focus on the environment and the vibes there while I am engaged and actively looking.

I still keep an open eye and will grab an opportunity that presents itself in the normal flow (salesgirls/waitresses, casual flirtation or conversation and online dating), but I do not recite much active energy to that as it is mostly a wasted effort.

Equivalent_Feature23 · 2022-01-25T02:35:16+00:00

Act as if you are about to walk away if they don’t give a shit.

ultrab1ue · 2022-01-25T05:31:02+00:00

Filter for girls who have graduate degrees on dating apps. They're usually less stupid and more fit and interesting

MiddleEnthusiasm1017 · 2022-01-25T02:59:15+00:00

Be hot idk people kinda just come talk to me cus I look cool or if I start a Convo they say they were anxious to come talk to me lmao

JacobMoogberg69 · 2022-01-25T06:20:17+00:00

They are probably responding to you, meaning you are coming across as trying too hard which signals to them that they are the chooser/buyer.

Tissle98 · 2022-01-25T10:09:18+00:00

Lol the definition of the girl I’m talking to right now no attempt to keep the conversation going or start one so I’m at a turn

2012Crazymexican · 2022-01-25T11:16:20+00:00

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throwaway_xx1247 · 2022-01-25T12:09:32+00:00

I don't bother talking to girls who don't reciprocate. It shouldn't feel like a chase imo. It's boring to do all the heavy lifting in a convention.

RangerCha · 2022-01-25T13:04:27+00:00

If a girl ever didn't seem into me (asking reciprocal questions and such) then I'd assume she's not having a good time and be on my way. I'm not here to drag someone along in a conversation. If this seems to be happening with everyone then maybe it's a regional thing, an issue with the topics you're choosing, or an issue with your tone maybe?

No-Ad854 · 2022-01-26T01:00:28+00:00

I’m literally in your same position. mine is like I’m starting the convo and keeping and going and she responds in literally one to two word responses e eh single time. But then I start to leave and ghost and she doesn’t want me to. Like que woman. She says that’s like her ‘love language’ and it’s the way she talks to me. Idk

Title	How do you filter girls?
Author	2012Crazymexican
Upvotes	31
Comments	65
Date	January 25, 2022 1:27 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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