How do you guys practice seduction when none of your friends are into this stuff?

pepsi190 · 2015-12-22T23:11:37+00:00

Ill be your friend... same boat.

Peso17 · 2015-12-23T00:40:11+00:00

Solo game will make you stronger. Wingmen are awesome but most interactions happen without one anyway.

To answer the question...going out solo or with a buddy/group are essentially the same thing. However when going out alone, you don't have someone as backup. Learn to be a lone wolf.

In my experience, going out alone I aim for a lone girl. Less intimidating than a group..in the beginning at least.

snypfc · 2015-12-23T00:07:32+00:00

Having a friend is fun and can be a confidence booster but don't make it essential... go out and socialize on your own

palmerd21 · 2015-12-22T23:29:22+00:00

Get new friends.

Saul_ess · 2015-12-23T00:56:54+00:00

Sure going out solo has it's benefits, but if you're new/intermediate, going out by yourself will probably yield limited results/slow progress.

Easiest and quickest solution is to find WINGMEN. Most likely your city has a pua community with guys in the exact same situation as you, who are looking to get better at this stuff but have nobody to go out with. Try to get in touch with them (try finding a facebook group or even use google), and network.

If you can't find a community online, keep going out solo and keep an eye out for other guys who are approaching girls (not hard to spot), and befriend them.

I highly recommend that one way or another, you find wingmen. Not only is it an initial confidence booster, but it's also got a wider range of benefits, like picking up on your sticking/blind spots and helping with logistics when pulling a group of girls.

To get good at this without having anyone else in your life to help you reinforce this new reality is going to take an insane amount of leverage.

eviiil · 2015-12-23T03:33:33+00:00

I relish the lone wolf role.

What are you afraid of being judged, unsure if this is the right thing to do? Just realize that you have every fucking right to chase after what you want.

TheMinistryOfAwesome · 2015-12-23T11:52:29+00:00

I'm in the same boat too - kind of. I have a couple of friends who are into it.. but one of them isn't very serious and the others are across the country.

I have that in my head too - it's very awkward to be the guy in a bar/club standing on his own with a beer, trying to make chatty time with people. Especially if you're in your 30s - nobody wants to be that old creeper guy.

That's why in situations like this it's much easier to do day game. You can justify being on your own in almost all other situations, as people mention, with a book /laptop etc.

I actually find the hardest part about going solo is that there's nobody to really go through your stuff with you from an outsider's perspective. It's nice to get criticism and feedback, that's what I miss most about not having anyone with me on a pickup day.

Bodegaz · 2015-12-23T09:17:43+00:00

Imo running night game alone kinda sucks and i wouldnt recommend for beginner. You can if you want but i prefer day game. Example, talk to people when you run your errands. Also online dating did wonders in building my confidence.

joshsway · 2015-12-23T15:37:19+00:00

Do you have any friends who are into just going out for a drink or willing to even talk to girls? That's all you need really, or you can go out yourself.

JakeApproaches · 2015-12-23T18:53:47+00:00

"Do you like talking to girls?"
"Are you interested in women?"

Your friends better be in a relationship or gay if they respond "No."

Just don't call it "pickup" or becoming a "PUA". It's a turn-off for a LOT of people. Because those words have a negative connotation.

CrushHazard · 2015-12-23T19:58:11+00:00

Get new friends. Even if you are like I was and do pretty well as a lone wolf, a good social circle is so much more powerful. Only when I got with a good clique of dudes who wanted to get laid did I have true success.

Title	How do you guys practice seduction when none of your friends are into this stuff?
Author	gussy1z
Upvotes	12
Comments	17
Date	December 22, 2015 11:03 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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