How does one learn text game?

caesarfecit · 2022-10-21T23:08:33+00:00

The same way Happy Gilmore trains for hockey season, except it isn't your head taking the hits, but your ego.

Club__Paradise · 2022-10-21T23:40:13+00:00

Don't try to impress her
Amuse yourself

Just comment random shit from their profile man and have fun. For example a girl was holding a bow and arrow in one of her photos, I messaged her "Lookout, she's armed and dangerous". From that point on we just had a flirty role play going on. Balance it out, but definitely avoid being too serious or having dry conversations.

If she asks "how are you?", the literal worst thing you can do is to respond literally. This isn't Jeff at work at 9am on a Monday morning, this is a girl you potentially want to have sex with. Honestly I'd just change it up, I'd respond with "not good at all". If she's into you she'll probably ask why and then you can make up something stupid.

Majestic_Meal_5655 · 2022-10-22T01:30:34+00:00

Texting is only to set dates. Ask to meet up after a few short text interchanges. Then get off the chat. Stop simpin your validation away.

incognito3107 · 2022-10-22T06:19:21+00:00

Play with words, induce emotions, get personal, lay out pleasurable topics, get some tension between responses, have fun yourself.

Throwawaytoearth · 2022-10-22T09:40:52+00:00

I look at their bios and pick out something they said that most interested me or I’m most adept at talking about. I love music for example so if a girl says she loves a certain artist I’ll talk about that genre of music or that artist. If she has no bio comment about something interesting in her pictures

Redwolfdc · 2022-10-22T15:31:17+00:00

You don’t “game” over text. Be fun and be interesting but try to push for a real life meeting

Hartwigg · 2022-10-22T19:16:01+00:00

you need to develop a charming opener, than you create a narrative around that opener, almost like you're narrating the exciting adventures you two are gonna experience together, all of that with witticisms, playful, flirty vibe. pro tip: build a opener with an assumption about her looks, while connecting with her personality. "your face gives off this vibe" but that's too simplified, make it a little bit more charming.

also assume familiarity, I don't know how to give you an example cause I don't text in english, but give off the idea you warned her about this particular subject, stuff like "you're are always late, [her name]"

text her two times a day or every other day, that's not much, but when you do it, increase the numbers of texts, you probably start with one/three texts, slowly increase to four texts, then six, eight, etc. usually girls send me 10 texts everytime they hit me up, cause I open my texts in 5 distincts subjects. they can be casual stuff, is like you talking about the most random shit, that builds comfort.

I don't know how to post screenshots but it should look like this: you send 6 messages with different subjects, whatever you want. she replys you with 6 or more texts, you take between 5-15 hours to respond, then reply to all that shit with a playful vibe and lots of flirting but don't overdue the flirting, is like you're compensating those long hours of silence with lot's of messages.

the important thing here, you're a not her texting buddy, she need to understand that, so most of the time you should be flirting, sometimes throw little comments about masculine stuff, say you're watching whatever sports, send sexual comments like "I would enjoy watching you doing yoga", do stuff like that within reason of course, or else you gonna get your ass friendzoned, ignored and ghosted.

make some assumptions from time to time, reduce the questions, or else things will probably dry up, 80% of the texting should be about her, with quicky comments about what you think of the subject. she'll probably start investing in the conversations too. that way you can talk more about yourself, but always go back to her.

sometimes throw some "I'm extremely shy" stuff like that. you need to spark emotions and be polarizing, tease her as well.

a few days into the conversation, send a voice message with a deep, calm, masculine tone. keep the flirty vibe.

you should send playful texts most of the time, but not always. sometimes is good to drop the act.

within a week or less you should be inviting her to a date, but if you know how to keep things going, you can hold the texting for a month before the first date.

distawest · 2022-10-22T13:40:54+00:00

The purpose of chat is to fix a date ... that said, you do only the necessary

Do not become her chat buddy, otherwise you 'll find yourself spending your time learning about how cruel her exes were

sinhaanip · 2022-10-22T10:18:03+00:00

No amount of theory can replace actual texting experience. Although theory helps to relate what’s happening irl . So keep texting..

MajorWookie · 2022-10-22T13:17:58+00:00

Texting is primarily for making plans not conversation.

Don’t get too text heavy with chitchat, pictures, memes and emoji‘s

syntheticmedicine · 2022-10-22T15:06:17+00:00

EnglishChap1 · 2022-10-30T15:36:06+00:00

Email me on [email protected] and I’ll coach you on it.

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Date	October 21, 2022 10:46 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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