Okay so when I try to be calculated and non thinking then I get anxiety and it gets worse.
Like the times it worked good for me I was like yeah i just want to have a convo. Then I was like flirting and having fun and hooked up with them.
But like now I feel if I see good looking girl I come to this subreddit or like try to think hard of opener and how to do that then I fail miserably body language or tonality or even verbal.
Anyway I was thinking and creating a routine for me with every girl that I’ll just flirt with them and just start approaching people casually dropping comments and observations with everyone and once a girl that I attracted to show iois then I’ll proceed.
The thing is I get anxiety and can’t think of a plan when I want a hot girl and try to “Create attraction”.
Anyway I know there people here who went through it how should i frame it in my mind and put it like it is part of me( essentially creating behavioral pattern for me). Also I’m afraid of the idea that being like nice and socializing with people will be perceived as low status ( unfortunately that’s how I see people the ones that are approaching and shi like that are low status and weak.