I can usually get dates and while texting I am smooth and all flirty with them but once I am actually there I don't get the confidence to flirt with the girl looking in her eyes.

The conversation is usually smooth, funny and interesting but sometimes I try to fill in the silence gaps with something stupid but in the end I can't make her to come to my place.

And I usually get a message the next day that I am really interesting but she sees me as a friend and wishing me luck (Pretty evident)

I would like to know how and what should be my approach in this case be which builds a definite sexual tension and I can actually bring her back to my place.

I think there are a lot of amazing people out here who have mastered this art so would love some suggestions!