About me:

- I'm 19 years old

- 5'6 (168cm)

- Average looking with good style

Achievements:

- Made out with 30-50 girls

- Fucked 9

- Pursuit my former English teacher

- Had a Threesome

This is my first Reddit Post and I plan to create many more, with specific Storys.

My Code:

- Even if the other guy is bigger and better looking - if you are more confident and play your cards right you'll win.

- It's not always about getting laid. You can have great fun with girls anyway. They'll end up as casual friends or people you may have sex with later. ANYWAY: You don't want to be the guy that tries to hard to get that girl to sleep with you. If she is not really interested, just enjoy the time with her and get into her social circle. Get to know as many people as possible and leave a good impression. It's all about status.

- When you go out, it's always good to have girls with you. (For example the ones you didn't fuck and friend zoned/ fuck them later) Don't be afraid to leave your group and walk around alone. Dance a bit on your own -> even if it's uncomfortable it will draw attention to you and show that you don't care what people think about you.

- Be flirty all the time. But with your own sense of humor and while being yourself. I for example am a very sarcastic type of person

How to draw attention:

- Dress good. It's not that hard. Just look at the other ballers and their style if you don't know to look good. You don't need any Gucci or some shit. But you gotta look sharp.

- Always be well-groomed and take care of your hygiene. Cut your nails etc.

- Good Fragrance. When you hug a girl or dance with her closely you wanna turn her own by smelling like a fuckin god.

- I personally like jewelry and extravagant clothing. Also since I'm pretty small, my style draws attention to me.

- Social proof. Evolve to be that guy, that everyone knows and talk to. Connect in any way you can.

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How to start:

There are many ways from zero to hero. But first you gotta look your best.

- Text people you went to school with, or you used to work with. Just casually talk about how they've been and meet them for a coffee -> connect and broaden your social circle. You'll get to know their friends and have people to spend time with.

- Meet people with similar interests. You'll find meetups online, no matter where you live.

- I am not a huge fan of dating apps like tinder. But I have friends, which have had decent success with this strategy. You'll find many tutorials on YouTube, about creating a good Profile.

- Meet them when going out.

- Friend of other friends you already know.

Example: You meet a guy you went to school with and have a coffee. You have a good time and decide to go out together. He brings 2 other friends with him. A guy and a girl. You have a good time and talk a bit with the girl. You are flirty but you realize she's not interested in you but in that other guy in the club. You play the wingman for her and approach the guy she is interested in. "Hey man cool (shirt /dancemoves /....), hows your night going? ...... Who are you here with?..... ah yeah hahaha..... Come over let me introduce you to my friends."

Since in 90% of all cases the guy is looking to get laid, this will be a successful wingman move. Congrats you've just found a girl, which will enjoy going out with you and probably introduce her to her friends.

-> My point is it's not hard to start building a social circle. All you really gotta do, is decide to have to most fun you have and be the coolest person you can be.

Just put yourself out there and think about possibilities to meet up with other people.

Now that you have people to go out with, you should start connecting with more people while have a party night.

What to do:

- Start conversations left and right. Get to know the barkeeper, the bouncers, and also that guy that is standing outside of club smoking all by himself. If you smoke yourself, don't use your own lighter. Always ask someone and get a conversation going. Same for buying a drink: ask the person next to you or the barkeeper what they would recommend and start talking. If you get along, exchange numbers.

- Due to you having an outstanding look and talking to many people, you will draw attention to yourself. -> You will start attracting girls.

- Be radiant: When I hit the club with 2 or 3 girls - which I'm not fucking or anything like that atm - I attract more girls. When I dance, I don't give to much attention to any of the pretty girls around me. I just enjoy the beautiful company that I already have. Still I ALWAYS realize that all the girls around me start moving into my direction.

- Follow this simple rule: if she looks at you multiple times and does not look disgusted while doing so, she is attracted. Find a way to approach her.

- personally I don't like to approach girls on the dance floor. If a girl is continuously looking at me while I'm dancing, I wait for her to go get a drink. Then I also go get a drink and approach her.

It's pretty easy from here on: I'm just my flirty self, joke around, hold eye contact and try to isolate her from her friends. Social proof and acting like baller is magical. Even if you don't make out with this girl - have fun while talking make her laugh and bring her to the dance floor or any other area with people around. THIS WILL GIVE YOU ANOTHER BOOST IN SOCIAL PROOF. Now you have truly shown that you are a ladies man. You didn't arrive with 10 horny needy dudes. You didn't try to get every girl in the club, you let them come to you. And even the girl you just met, is having a fun time with you. Now the other girls want you.

After a while, you will have really good-looking female friends, which will introduce you to their friends. This female friends will hit the club with you and be the best social proof you get. NOW YOU OWN THIS PLACE.

That's it for now. I know all this was a bit chaotic. I'm open for any questions and motivated to share more of mindset and adventures.