How you manage to learn seduction?

entitledwank · 2025-12-25T18:57:28+00:00

approach old men first, they are the most lonely. The goal isn’t to seduce them, the goals is to strike up a conversation with a stranger and leave them better than when you found them.

over time start cold approaching and building relationships with grannies, fat chicks, ugly girls, etc, just to see if you you can. As you build confidence then you’ll soon get tot the point where you can approach the hottest girl in the bar and take her home the same night.

moral of the story, practice and and start yourself at level 1 before going for the home run

Pantherist · 2025-12-25T19:29:52+00:00

The number 1 rule is to be outcome-indifferent and poker-faced. Approach women like you approach clients; the key difference being that this is meant to be informal and light-hearted.

You have to make her feel the right vibes, while you're constantly reading the room.

Being too invested will lead to you being pushy and if perceived that way, will result in failure.

Do all of these things, and still be prepared for rejection. At least you can rest easy knowing it wasn't your fault.

Last step, move on to the next one swiftly when that happens.

OpinionThink481 · 2025-12-25T19:52:27+00:00

Because everyone’s got different personalities and their game is adapted to their personality. You seem confused because you think of seduction as some of mathematical equation where there is only one answer.

Seduction is an art, every artist has a different style. There is Van Gogh. There is Da vinci, there is Picasso. There is Dali.

Sure there are certain basics, like emotional connection, confidence, self esteem, abundance mentality, flirtation, sexual tension, and then every style of each artists aims to trigger those things.

You have some pick up artists that use humor to get girls and it works for them, then there are those who prefer to be more serious and stoic and it works for them with other girls that might find that personality more appealing than the funny guy.

So it’s not about which one is better or which one abd the ultimate answer, it’s just different styles that attract different girls because if everyone had the exact same style we’d all be dull boring we wouldn’t stand out in any way.

What you need to make sure is that you avoid the basic mistakes, like being insecure, unsure, doubting yourself, being needy, making girls feel pressured, slut shaming them, seeking approval constantly, putting them on a pedestal, being overly safe, and being logical with them.

So once you avoid the mistakes any personality can work with different stiles and you might even form your own style which works for you.

ThatDarnSmell · 2025-12-25T21:15:03+00:00

You're using a lot of 2000s PUA era buzzwords. Lose that frame of mind immediately and quit thinking of women as video game avatar rankings. Someone attractive is nice, but you're really making this an object based and outcome dependent scenario.

Focus on talking to women like human beings and not relying on any kind of silly system. Get to know them, see what things you like and don't like, and try to see if there's enough middle ground for the potential of a future relationship.

Makakka2002 · 2025-12-28T01:32:01+00:00

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Title	How you manage to learn seduction?
Author	Irachar
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Date	December 25, 2025 6:42 PM UTC (7 months ago)
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