I choked

YetzirahToAhssiah · 2025-06-14T20:33:24+00:00

Overthinking this is what you fucked up

Substantial-Bad-4508 · 2025-06-14T15:55:03+00:00

How should have you responded since she's implied that you're not a bad boy?

Silly_Randy · 2025-06-14T17:34:55+00:00

"all my friends say I like sluts"

"That's coz you're a bad girl".

Possible-Studio7347 · 2025-06-14T15:59:23+00:00

İnteresting

Captain_w00t · 2025-06-14T16:39:22+00:00

I don’t get the issue here.

What are you thinking you were supposed to reply?

Also, your story lacks context, but you’re worrying about this small detail.

A genuinely confident person, isn’t afraid of what frame others try to put them, they stay in their own frame without the need to prove anything.

That’s to say, once again, that it’s not important what you say or do (or don’t), but how you do it.

A confident person will stay confident anyway, an insecure one won’t. That’s the difference.

Amaran345 · 2025-06-14T21:50:34+00:00

Always take things into account, never overreact or choke

Illusion911 · 2025-06-14T20:44:38+00:00

"well I don't mean to brag, but I like to put the milk in before the cereal"

"Well some times I cross the road without looking both ways, if that's too much for you I understand"

Substantial-Bad-4508 · 2025-06-14T16:24:22+00:00

Don't beat yourself up. Learn and move on.

Lesson: know your frame so if someone challenges it you'll know how to respond in a confident and non defensive manner.

If you pass a shit test it'll only increase your value and her attraction to you.

FriendlyWrenChilling · 2025-06-15T16:17:46+00:00

What does this have to do with anything? It doesn't mean anything.

RealisticDiscipline7 · 2025-06-14T16:17:01+00:00

So she was flirting, and you froze and didnt know how to flirt back in that moment. That’s happened to me sooo many times. But a lot less after practicing.

BatBottleBank · 2025-06-14T15:47:55+00:00

?

If u were chad it wouldn’t have mattered

Title	I choked
Author	Mr_Dixon1991
Upvotes	16
Comments	30
Date	June 14, 2025 3:43 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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