Hey guys,

So I've found that in my dating life I have a pretty serious problem...
I'm an extremely sociable guy, I have a super easy time making friends, talking to people confidently, I'm really really funny (I do stand up comedy and I never having a hard time making people laugh and I'm told frequently that I'm incredibly funny) and i'm not too bad looking (although i'm not really too attractive. I have lost 60 lbs recently and i'm at a good weight for my height), I have a good job right now, hobbies, skills, and a really nice humble guy in general (even though so far the humble part doesn't seem true, I just wanted to give as much detail as possible to get the best advice possible). and in general someone you could consider desirable to women.

My issue is that even though i'm pretty desirable to women (imo at least) I get friendzoned pretty much EVERY time by women. I have no issues at all approaching women and talking to them and charming the fuck out of them but im always told things like "I would totally date you, but you're just too good of a friend to me and I wouldn't want to loose that" either that or just "I just want to be friends with you really" I'm really really wondering what I'm doing wrong. One problem that I have is that being under 21 but not in school and working from home as a freelancer I don't have a good way to meet a ton of women so when I do have the chance to approach someone with a romantic intent its either in a place that's not really somewhere were a girl isnt looking to be approached (I.e. a coffee shop, in public like at the park or something, at the store etc etc..). And sometimes I will have a friend that I realize that maybe Id like to try date but i'm always presented with the same friendzone response.

Does anyone have any good adive as to how to change the way that I'm talking to girls that will maybe convey a different tone? Maybe i'm just really really ugly and I don't realize it? I'm seriously at a loss at this point and I'm hoping one of you guys will have some advice that will help me out. Thanks!

(P.S. If anyone has any advice on how to ask a girl out in public/where to ask someone out that's available to me as someone who's under 21 in a non creepy way, just based on today's culture where actually talking to someone is considered "weird" as everyone is buried into their phone and face to face interaction with a stranger usually just screams "im a fucking creep and I want to get into your pants" )

(P.S.S. Im looking for a girl to get into a real relationship with, I don't care too much about sex and i'm totally willing to wait a few weeks for sex with a girl, so i'm looking for any advice about how to find someone to date and get into a relationship with, if that helps at all)