Is anybody else just not bothered?

CollaterLDamage · 2016-11-19T15:51:00+00:00

i think you did the ego drop and never picked it back up. they say the best way to pick up women is to not be so interested. im guessing you reached that point where you genuinely aren't and simply dont care anymore.

if you can do it(have done it), its not fear. if youre not interested but want to be, it may be medical (low testosterone/ depression). if its just women dont seem any more special than anyone else, then youve reached the calm.

Innadahk · 2016-11-19T14:57:12+00:00

If it doesn't bother you then why are you trying to find someone to relate to? We get it, you slam ass so easy half the time you don't even bother showing up. I'm sure you're not alone.

SpicyTunaNinja · 2016-11-19T17:07:56+00:00

Yea, it's called growing older and more mature. The older you get, the less it's going to excite to see the next pair of titties

natephant · 2016-11-19T16:39:42+00:00

Yes. It's gotten to the point where I can read the room, and if I know I can close I don't even bother.

Only if I'm not positive of the outcome will I try anything.... and then I just take to the point where I know I can close, then I pull back and get a drink.

I've just become a crabby old introvert honestly.

It's not fun anymore.

Now I just armchair quarterback from here.

Andrew54321 · 2016-11-19T18:29:39+00:00

Sounds like you're just bored.

Up the ante if you want to be in the fray. Pull a stripper. They are gaming guys and are worthy opponents in seduction.

If you're good at your level, a new endeavour/goal will bring that energy of desire back.

g4casting · 2016-11-19T18:59:29+00:00

I'm not even good with girls or bang a lot of them, but I'm in the same boat. Sometimes I just won't even try, eventhough it's right there for the taking. It just seems like a chore. Maybe it's because I'm very picky

jtjt91733 · 2016-11-20T00:21:45+00:00

you could have low t

sunfistkid · 2016-11-20T02:26:27+00:00

Serious question: do you lift weights? For men, it's a natural way to regulate your hormones.

Nwa_Compton · 2016-11-20T05:06:33+00:00

I am the same way now, what I found the factor was no fap. I no longer give girls attention and in return they realize it and try to get your attention.

blackberrydoughnuts · 2016-11-21T02:37:03+00:00

Seems like you're past sex for the sake of sex and now you're wanting something more, like someone who's really compatible with you and who you find really intriguing.

skeeter04 · 2016-11-19T22:24:16+00:00

Congratulations, you have graduated to the last stage of your Man-turation. The TRUMP stage where you experience a blissful state of Misogyny.

ImBadWithGrils · 2016-11-20T04:07:17+00:00

Kinda? I've never even kissed a girl but there's one at work who I'm into but I don't even feel like asking her out. We're gonna go see Christmas lights after Thanksgiving but outside of that, I'm not sure where I want it to go

Aeon199 · 2016-11-20T06:20:17+00:00

Forget women and their elitist standards.

Why the fuck would you want to make sure you have strong career prospects and a strong social circle--loads of unnecessary, pointless bullshit, spreading yourself thin--just to get women?

I can't understand why other guys are offering "indentured servitude" to certain societal standards, without questioning any of it. You're doing most of it to impress women, without realizing it.

hamdanegg · 2016-11-20T18:44:10+00:00

Yes, I only want 9s and 10s who also have a great personality (which I can never seem to attract). Anything below I'm not really bothered.

Title	Is anybody else just not bothered?
Author	CloneStamp
Upvotes	10
Comments	20
Date	November 19, 2016 2:41 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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