Is hiring a coach worth it?

succcondese · 2022-06-10T10:22:43+00:00

I'm not sure what your personal situation is like, but in 99/100 cases a coach is a waste of money. all the skills they teach can be learned for free from youtube

Sup3rHD · 2022-06-10T14:43:39+00:00

For what? Teaching how to talk to girls? 😂

Spend you money in clothes and self improvement like gym

devolve79 · 2022-06-10T09:46:44+00:00

Nah. Watch some videos on YouTube if you like. Personally my thought is. Better yourself and keep shooting. Eventually you'll land something worthwhile

Optymistyk · 2022-06-10T22:52:34+00:00

Don't know but do tell us if you try it

cutiepienew · 2022-06-11T04:32:37+00:00

Yes it can cut out a lot of time and get personalized advice. For dating you need to find the right coach. Try modern flirting. There are other options such as John anthony lifestyle, inner confidence tripp advice etc. Same goes for free content on YouTube you need to find the good ones otherwise it's going to be a waste of time.

PatientAssociation62 · 2022-06-13T01:07:04+00:00

depends on where you are at. Just starting out? No. You can learn the basics for free or the cost of a good book. If you are midway, like dating, but still having issues then yes it might be worth it. Or maybe if you are stuck on a basic point and need help. But most of the time no.

DanieTB99 · 2022-06-10T10:51:54+00:00

I got a couch once for 2 sessions and honestly the workout is easier and more fun with one. I felt like with the coach I did really good workouts and in only an hour. But at the same time with how much money it costs it just isn't worth it. Even 3 days a week would probably cost you 100-150 a week.

I also got my one to teach me how to squat and deadlift properly, something I sorta believe needs to be shown to you in person just in case you fuck it up and hurt yourself or do it slightly wrong, but you could also just ask people in your gym who are buff for advice.

Statecrush · 2022-06-10T12:22:16+00:00

not looking up the guy but a coach is generally worth it from the standpoint that you are going to figure it out anyway and you pay either with your time or your money. Money is much much less valuable than time, had to learn it the hard way avoided coaching for years, had good progress but could have safed halve the time being confused, as soon as i got coaching (in my case free from friends but you cannot rely on this) I got much much clearer in what i need to work on plus you have someone support me working on a set objective with at least held me on track and i really needed that. The best thing a coach can give you is empowerment and individual guidance on your journey. And lastly the best investment you can make with money is in yourself and your skills, get in the habit of doing that

MK2718 · 2022-06-10T14:04:52+00:00

If you don't plan to continue working on your own after the initial coaching experience, then I would not recommend it. If you are tight on cash, then save your money and start going out alone and applying knowledge from free sources. Here is a free source.

FrequentPizza8663 · 2022-06-10T15:55:10+00:00

It depends. A coach can help give you an unbiased debrief after things happen and help redirect you. Any coach worth their salt will tell you their job is to support, redirect, and challenge you in ways you might not be able to challenge yourself. Outside perspective can be good, particularly if your network isn't filled with quality folks who can offer good outside perspective to help your dating game. I feel like coaches are for a certain type of person, and that's OK. Do what you will!

Zealousideal6669 · 2022-06-10T17:07:17+00:00

Depends, It might be worth it but not every guy who can get a girl also knows how to teach well it's a whole different skillset. I do help other guys to be better socially and girl but I had to learn it for myself beforehand on how to be more charismatic, confident, more interesting, and so forth so I'm kinda an honest example also analyzing your actions helps a lot what went wrong, what you can improve and even figure things out on your own. Took years I know but nothing is a waste of time that you spend on being better

rattled_by_rush · 2022-06-10T17:54:09+00:00

I did Skype coaching for a couple months. Really cheap, I think $10-20 each for 30min sessions twice a month. I'm still a huge rookie but it helped me build up to my first cold approach which I'm not sure I would have done otherwise. Plus he's a really chill guy and clearly does it for love of the game. This probably sounds like a fake promo but w/e! Dm if interested

KrikoryanG · 2022-06-11T07:22:35+00:00

Read "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus" first

CowgirlBebop575 · 2022-06-11T09:39:47+00:00

What would a coach do for you? Give you confidence and social skills?

TheCoach44 · 2022-06-11T09:59:01+00:00

Dont waste money on a product you cant see! Its all a scam.

If she likes you, she'll go to hell & back for you! If she doesnt, you get nothing no Coach can change a woman's taste for you

celestial-kitty2 · 2022-06-11T10:02:14+00:00

I’d avoid coaches women hate because that’s kind of counterproductive 😅

distawest · 2022-06-11T11:38:55+00:00

A coach could be very helpful, but a rigorous selection is necessary. Do not rush it, see lots of their videos before signing up. It is essential that your characters fit

redditor4206903 · 2022-06-11T12:46:46+00:00

Yes, the couch will give you additional income, 4 inches to your height and 20 pounds of muscles. They will also wake you up every morning and tell you to go to work. Since you pay X amount of money, you might as well be a little more motivate to talk to a real life female. So you might get laid.

Be Alpha af and pay for a couch.

oj47dG · 2022-06-11T14:16:46+00:00

Fuck no. It's all about real life experience. Work on yourself watch what hot people do and take risks. That's all there is.

If you need a plan: 1. Work on yourself build up confidence and get out there 2. Be much more flirty and Dating 3. Raw sexieness

Title	Is hiring a coach worth it?
Author	PersonalAccess8211
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Date	June 10, 2022 8:48 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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