I've been analyzing myself. My results are poor. I think it's because I try too hard. I know other guys who don't invest in themselves, don't try so hard to make a good impression, and yet they get better results. I am hopeful, which I believe is good. Recently, I heard a line from the series Seinfeld, where the character George says that hope is killing him, that he didn't want to have hope, because when you have no hope, you don't care. And when you don't care, that indifference makes you attractive. I think I want so badly to become more sociable and good with women that this effort has been harming me.