The truth on this subreddit is that it's for people with low self esteem. People want to know how to better themselves, and those who post here about how to spit game or about their success do it to help and inspire. That is admirable.

However i have rarely commented kn this subreddit or posted. i have something id like to say, and i'm not trying to say something to change this subreddit, I just hope to reach those who will listen:

Everyone, even those who get crazy amounts of girls, meet success often, and have perfected the art of hitting on girls, has low self esteem. I personally believe that this has created a world of people who are overly competitive and self destructive. I would never take advice from a guy on this subreddit because he is seeking, to one degree or another, approval from others. This is why they feel the need to "seduce" in the first place. You try to get laid or make yourself known to women because you need their approval.

Seduction aspect of dating is not very deep. If all you want is to meet hundreds of women then continue what you're doing. Having been one of these guys for a long time, I understand the value of if. But I can assure you it has a hollow ending. There is no love of passion. This may sound like a "beta" thing to say to those who have superiority complexes and need reassurance. Are you that guy?

I'm going to get to the point: I have been with the same woman for 4 years now. We have had our ups and very low downs. I know the game, I have taken advantage of it and made women feel insecure for my own benefit, I have put myself on a pedestal to have others look up to me for the sake of itself. That was because it was what I felt like I needed to do.

But now, after being with a woman who I have not fully appreciated sometimes, and seeing that despite all the rules of the game we are still together, I know there is something more powerful than cute openers and confidence: that is truly knowing who you are. When that happens, you will truly respect yourself and you will find what it is that you really want: love.

If you're going to say something against me, don't waste your time. Go hit on girls and do what it is you are doing. But the world of seduction is just one of many perspectives of life you will know. When its all said and done, where will you be? Who will you be with? Some girl who you won by being witty and charming, until the next guy comes along who can do what you do, but better?

Know who you are. That is the truth behind being with someone you actually want to be with. Stop pussy footing and needing approval, just go be yourself and the right people for you will find you. If yours happy being a "seduction master" or an "Alpha" then keep it up, the only love you need to find is your own. That's neither good nor bad, if that's what makes you happy I am literally telling you to keep it up, no sarcasm intended.

That's just my two cents. You may disagree, but whatever. I know where my head and my heart is.