I have never been one for going out, but my frat-star roommate has convinced me to go out downtown more and to his frat parties, so I said, "sure". Sorority girls, why not?

Every party I've gone to, I've gone to date-less because while I went out with a lot of girls over the past year, I sort of hit/quit and find a new one.

And while I don't dance well, I still try to forget it and still have fun. But girls don't approach me, and everyone seems like they already have a group at parties so approaching just seems awkward.

Correction: One girl did approach me ("I lost my friends!"), and I thought we were hitting it off until she re-located her group and went back to them.

I'm average height and pretty average looks based on the wide range of "hot" to "cute" to "not interested"'s that I have gotten throughout my life.

I just hate going into a party with no guarantee of any action, and the stress whether I am drunk or not ruins the fun for me.

I feel like I am putting myself out there—way more than I used to, but I guess that's not enough.