Mid 50s doing cold approach?

KoleSekor · 2025-04-04T13:51:31+00:00

Do it!

Realistic-Load-1302 · 2025-04-04T13:29:30+00:00

Why would it be creepy? If you’re sticking to women your age I see no problem in it. Looks to me like a limiting belief of yours, don’t let it hold you back.

StrongElderberry8952 · 2025-04-04T15:29:21+00:00

You've spent half of your life already, why care about others opinion, approach 20 yo if you want lol

ThatDarnSmell · 2025-04-04T14:13:16+00:00

Most conventionally attractive women in their mid 30s would likely politely brush you off, but you never know. Give it a try. You'll find someone as long as you are confident in yourself and probably moreso if you have a very successful career/lifestyle. Early middle age will have plenty of recently divorced women who took care of themselves. It's traditionally a fairly substantial age gap and so keep it in mind. As I exited my divorce, I was kind of surprised how little I related or had in common to most women a decade younger. But you do you. Don't let rejections bother you and try not to be rattled when they ask how old you are or hint that you are "old." Just never lie about your age under any circumstances either online or in person. You could own it and say you are blessed and having the time of your life.

FriendlyWrenChilling · 2025-04-04T15:42:58+00:00

Creepy is a inner state and belief, nothing to do with cold approach. If you want a 9 or a 10 you need to realistically learn to the point of framing. See my post how to get a woman to chase.

See my post "how to learn pickup", to reliably get a 9 or a 10 consistently with cold approach, you would be required to reach "developing your own style". You'll be in your late 50s if you decide to do that.

I just recommend you start approaching until you luck out with a girl you can settle down with. See my post on approaching to note down the principles and then go do it!

Chicagoj1563 · 2025-04-04T16:06:34+00:00

I’m your age and your thinking about it all wrong.

It’s not about whether people think it’s creepy. That just signals you care what people think and may be triggered by it.

The question to ask is, can you walk into a packed bar, approach groups of people, start conversations and get them to hook? Can you develop the best mindsets and social skills to handle social pressure, such as someone thinking you are creepy and calling you out?

It’s not about worrying what people think and being reactive to that. It’s learning to handle it so it’s not an obstacle. And can even be an advantage.

Can you do this? Yes you can. But have a success oriented mindset and look at it as a fun game. A social experiment if you will. It’s self amusement while leveling up your social skills in the context of meeting attractive women.

Fantastic-Life-2024 · 2025-04-04T16:36:01+00:00

I'm 50 and every single night I go out I get invitations from women half my age and less.
The last night I was out a group of girls started talking to me and this isn't an isolated experience.

I actually ignore women all the time but it doesn't stop them. I am very tall and semi athletic so that all helps.

Just go out and be a cool guy. If you're worried about being a creep don't bother because you aren't going to give the vibe out that's effective.

MineDesperate2920 · 2025-04-04T15:35:13+00:00

I’m 36 and my buddy is 40. We go out lots

Aggressive_Special25 · 2025-04-04T21:18:11+00:00

I'm friends with a really old guy he is like 80. He won't approuch anyone who is more than 20 years younger than him he has an age limit. Anyways he is the best pick artist I have ever seen. He is just kind and polite to them. And he gets all the grannies!

Virtual_Ad_4817 · 2025-04-05T01:58:32+00:00

I know a guy who was 72, and he picked up a hot 18yo waitress and banged her. Granted he looked like he was maybe in his early 60s. But still.

If you act creepy, it will be creepy. So don't be creepy. Learn the right systems and strategies to move your interactions forward.

theveganshaper36 · 2025-04-10T06:32:25+00:00

35 here and have dated only 21's to 25's the past 4 years they are the ones approaching literally.

Title	Mid 50s doing cold approach?
Author	Keithlct
Upvotes	11
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Date	April 4, 2025 1:22 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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