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[–]OutsideTheCage3 34 points35 points36 points 7 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
"Inner" game and "outer game" really feed each other. They should be improved simultaneously.
[–][deleted] 18 points19 points20 points 7 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
That's why i don't get it when people tell you to approach Women when you're feeling crappy. Women will sense it a mile away and you wont bring your A game.
[–]gtrman571 12 points13 points14 points 7 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
The past two years of cold approaching as a newbie I’ve had virtually zero results - I think I finally have to accept that a big reason is because I really don’t like myself that much - Girls can sense it, they think “ewww go away”. That shit is demoralizing and the cycle of self hatred repeats...
[–]greenlittleman 3 points4 points5 points 7 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
There are no psychic abilities, girls in particular don't have them. It is hard for me to imagine what someone who did at least 500 approaches can have any problems if he know some fundamentals like eye contact, confident body language, strong voice tonality, teasing, etc. Approaching 10 girls a year in a nightclub isn't equal to "two years of cold approaching".
[–]traceviral 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Thats me. I don't have an outgoing personality.
[–]greenlittleman 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
It isn't about personality.
[–]traceviral 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Then? I can't really imagine why i get the results i do. I'm seriously considering i have high functioning autism because no one else as you said. Would approach 500 girls and have no results.
[–]greenlittleman 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Not exactly "no one else", just if you have such results it means you did something fundamentally wrong - you don't have foundations I mentioned or don't try to build them. Most likely you sound not sincere and not confident when approaching women, also you probably putting them on pedestal and don't make them experience emotions, don't being a challenge, don't do push/pull, etc. If you did at least some things right then there should be results, if not lays, but at least some make outs with girls.
[–]traceviral 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Sounds like too much work for an interaction
I say that because. Your previous statement isn't entirely true. Its extremely common for guys to do hundreds of approaches and have zero success. Thats why most guys don't approach at all.
I don't understand your sincere, confidence, pedestal comments. Not something you can get feedback on.
[–]TooInToFitness104 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I feel you on this!
[–]dailymanup 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
If you want to get laid by the hottest girls, then you need to have the right mindset. It's so easy to let all the bullshit in life clutter up your mind. Clear all that shit and focus on what is important: Yourself, your family and your life. Focus on those things first. Get them sorted out. That's the foundation of getting the hot chicks. The techniques in these videos are all about getting your mind right. And getting her crazy attracted to you:
Make Her Crazy Attracted (Instead of Ghosting You)
Mad Social Circle Game To Get Chicks Fighting Over You (In College or Anywhere)
Destroy Approach Anxiety and Approach Any Girl
Pass Any Shit Test (Because it's all a Mental Game Anyway)
[–]mrblackjapa 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Well in a sense, it’s good practice to be able to pull off a win when the moons are not in line , my favorite shirt not clean , need a hair cut , why approach don’t get paid till Friday, I’m in my gym clothes, I didn’t shave to day . You would come up Scientific Genius excuse because you’re not in A game
[–]Sandvicheater 5 points6 points7 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
You miss 100% of the shots you don't take - Wayne Gretzky
[–]YesIStick 7 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
-Michael Scott
[–]D_K_Schrute 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
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[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
FUCK YES!
[–]nautafish222 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I like that the message inspires personal growth by emphasizing mind over matter. I would include that this ideal mental fortitude takes reflection, recognition, and practice. Most importantly, this takes TIME.
Edit: The youtube channels talk about mental health, just an FYI. They may or may not apply, but the techniques can still be worthwhile in the seduction aspect.
Reflect: What is leading to mental barriers (stress, learned helplessness, mental health, etc.).
Recognize: When you begin to think about this, over time, you can become aware of WHEN this mentality is occurring. Then, you can practice corrective measures
Practice: Practice correcting this thinking with positive self-talk ( I will/I can, I am worthy, or I am statements). for example, say you are fixated on being unable to ride a bike. You can practice positive self-talk such as "I will learn how to ride a bike", " I am capable of learning how to ride a bike". The point of this is to re-wire how you view yourself/your limits. In other words, how to attempt to break the ropes., Other techniques to apply is self-corrections and identifying stressors/triggers. Perhaps, dating is just overall stressful and it takes practice for you to get to a level of comfort in facing the dating scene.
Admittedly, this information is a synthesis of these two youtube channels: 1) Alan Robarge 2) Kati Morton
[–]tecko105 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Now I feel sad for the Elephants :(
[–]AbstractSea1 point 7 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
This story is somewhat of a myth. Elephants have most likely figured out by now that they can break through ropes.
[–]underrdog2 points 7 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
United States must support elephants fight for democracy and freedom.
[–]MiamiHeatAllDay 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is some 🔥
[–]NaturalPrefN3 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Love it man thanks for posting!
[–]poopmaroop 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is a great passage. But pick up artistry is extremely retarded. I’ve been there kids, don’t waste your time studying this bullshit. It will not get you girls, but definitely make you a complete douche.
[–]Supersquigi 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I know this picture is pretty aged but it would be much more effective if the foot wasn't in a chain.
[–]ATTILA_THE_HONEY_BUN 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It shows how the elephant’s mind perceives the little rope.
[–]wvsfezter 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Learned helplessness is the story of my fucking life.
[–]Tyrion69Lannister 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
But what is the elephant’s growth equivalent to? If it’s looks or money, then people have a reason to think they can’t breakaway because they probably can’t considering they’re still a small elephant
[–]cooooook123 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I needed this today.
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