Hi guys.

Jewiger, ImKumarYo, and I from BayAreaSeddit went out last night.

We started off well... Pregamed at my house, Jewiger #-closes and spends a good 20 minutes building rapport with a hottie on the bus.

Then we just proceed to beast away in the bars and on the streets.

Collectively we #-closed at least 5 girls and bounced two different two-sets. We did all the usual fun stuff. (My fave is still picking up girls over my head inside a bar.)

I just thought a reminder on why your opener is unimportant would be good...

Opener #1: "STOP. Did you ladies watch 60 Minutes last night?"

They'll either be confused or laugh (both of them good for you!) Then you can either keep the joke going. "OMG it was crazy, right? When that guy did that thing." Or whatever you feel like.

Opener #2: "Ladies, do you know that song? The one that goes DADADADADADADADADADADADADA?"

You just sing some random beat to an old school rap song or something. Again, it's unimportant.

We used both those random openers to bounce sets to successfully bounce sets last night. More proof that your opener doesn't matter.

If your opener doesn't matter, what does?

Your internal frame. Are you having fun? Is your state not dependent on the outcome? Are you not approval seeking?

If the answer to those is YES, then you'll probably be able to open most sets with just about anything.

Also, studying vocal tonality and body language is good. But really if you can improve your Inner Game and just focus on holding eye contact like a boss, you'll do just fine.

So try some random opener thought up on the spot next time... You just might surprise yourself!

Go and get 'em, gents.