Need advice dealing with a single mom

Electric_kundalini · 2021-11-16T14:29:01+00:00

You could just say i don't see it working out. Women would rather you be straight up with them anyway. The problem with single mothers is that they typically want to settle down and have long term commitment relationships. If you're not looking for anything serious don't let it get to the point where she makes you feel like a father figure towards her children, otherwise she'll use them against you to guilt trip you when you want to end the relationship.

boycott-mondays · 2021-11-16T15:34:42+00:00

You keep it to sex only... If she asks you to do something that's out of the bedroom, say you are busy.

Keep interaction with the child to a bare minimum unless you are planning on taking the role as the kids new father. She should understand that you are not the kids father, so it would be harder for you to be accepted in that role, unless you are actually trying

bridgetthebanker · 2021-11-16T14:01:36+00:00

BE HONEST.

rosbergsessa420 · 2021-11-16T21:37:08+00:00

Do not do it. You don't wanna deal with single moms trust me. Waste of everything

Phoshow1111 · 2021-11-16T18:06:31+00:00

I usually fake an accident then just change my number. Sucks cuz I’m on my 8th IG account.

kissmygame17 · 2021-11-16T21:28:13+00:00

Be up front as early as possible. Just made my way out of this situation while seemingly keeping a FWB situation. I got lucky because she tripped out and I told her that I didn't want to continue. And btw, use a rubber. 😪

CorenBrightside · 2021-11-16T21:01:44+00:00

Be straight about what you want out of it and don't meet the kids. They will get attached to you and someone gets hurt.

One-Hedgehog4722 · 2021-11-17T00:11:43+00:00

You have the talk, first I’d go with “id still like to see you, but I’m fine with you seeing other people (as I plan on seeing others) implants the idea things aren’t working out so when you do cut ties it’s somewhat expected. However keep in mind this can make them want you more, but at least they get the thought process before hand. Typically if I don’t plan on something long term with someone, this is the path I take. Sometimes Girls can really appreciate the honesty, especially when they’ve been cheated on and lied to about it in the past. If you tell them, then you aren’t lying nor cheating

rememberedthemoney · 2021-11-17T00:40:13+00:00

Just be straight with her I'm dating one now im completely honest I don't try to play dad or wish to I play boyfriend that's all I'm not their dad I have no control and don't wish to be right now so we're just casually dating for now yea I will hang out with her and them but won't do more then that I will help but make sure she doesn't see me as reliable I don't pay bills I'm a last resort for her kids and she knows I'm for her and nothing more and we can break up at any time and have a understanding of this.

keithkhev · 2021-11-17T17:42:29+00:00

Just don't get involved with a single mother if you're gonna just dip anyway

crazyoverthinker · 2021-11-16T14:06:42+00:00

Well the exit plan has to be like acting irresponsible and not making an effort to keep it going. No interaction with the kid. Acting like a dick which makes him convey this to his mom and she realises you are not the right family guy and she dumps you.

dark_helmt8 · 2021-11-16T16:18:26+00:00

Keep dating other women and let her know you are doing that.

Tall_Butterscotch_32 · 2021-11-16T20:07:20+00:00

Why you care? If she was not interested in you she wouldn't bother say anything either.funny men need to say things but it's okay when women's doing the same thing.this is why ghosting is the best. No drama, unless you still want to come back or be friend.but I'll say just move on, she might be hurt. but it's what modern dating is about.i mean sure it's sound like a bad person,but you gonna leave her either way, everyone that put themselves out there in dating market should be ready for things to happen in this dating app area, especially single mom cause she most likely will suffer from this.

Mmm91for · 2021-11-16T20:22:23+00:00

Thank me later …

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Title	Need advice dealing with a single mom
Author	Emotional_Grape8449
Upvotes	10
Comments	25
Date	November 16, 2021 2:00 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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