Plateau

stenberget · 2024-11-15T14:05:56+00:00

Closing with 8-10s might be nerve-wracking. Most people get intimidated by looks, and you might have that issue. You’re not yourself, like when you talk to 5-7s. Exposure therapy: talk to as many 8-10s as you can without closing. Do not close. Right now, you’re in a stage where your mind can’t think straight when they’re around. If you can’t find 8-10s in your area, get away and try to talk to them daily. Not through DMs. If you see them in the store, go up and strike up a random conversation. You’re ready to close when you see 8-10s just like you see 5-7s. When you’re numb to the looks of the 8-10s, you’ll be like Michael Jordan.

klippklar · 2024-11-15T17:26:36+00:00

Maybe you should look inside yourself and ask why looks intimidate you. Is it that you're scared that you're not worthy of being with a beautiful girl? Or perhaps it's not about her beauty at all but about your own insecurities, fearing rejection, vulnerability, or the idea that someone so outwardly perfect might see your flaws too clearly. True confidence doesn’t come from matching someone's looks, but from knowing your worth goes far deeper than appearance.

Western-Month-3877 · 2024-11-15T17:45:54+00:00

Treat them all like a 5-7. You can give them a scale based on your preference but if you’re not careful it could backfire.

Tell yourself “yeah she’s a 9 so what? Let’s see if she has any flaws and red flags.” Because based on my experiences the higher the score the more flaws and red flags a person has (also applied to men). So you have to take them all into consideration most of the time they no longer be a 9 or a 10 afterwards.

Murfdigidy · 2024-11-15T18:15:37+00:00

The best example I can give for talking to a beautiful woman, is if you can go up to a woman and talk to her, in exactly the same way and manner that you would talk to your best friend, then you are doing better than 99% of men.

It's that same mind numbing saying... just be yourself. there's no truer words ever said.

Being yourself means your confident, you're not swayed by other people, you are who you are take it or leave it. You're not going to attract all people this way, cuz you're not going to click with everyone, but you're going to attract a lot more than you repel I can promise you that.

As another replier said... Approaching a 9 should be absolutely NO DIFFERENT than approaching a 5. Why, because you don't change for anyone, you are who you are no matter what.

Assem1111 · 2024-11-15T13:55:04+00:00

Notice any leveling behaviour and get rid of it be yourself like with you r friends and other 6s and 7s

AssistTemporary8422 · 2024-11-15T23:43:34+00:00

You should improve your looks if you want more attractive women. Also you need to do more teasing and not looking needy.

Title	Plateau
Author	appolonysian
Upvotes	11
Comments	14
Date	November 15, 2024 1:51 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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