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Really been feeling like I'm never good enough as a 6'4" non-white dude in Canada.

No_Stress3476

May 20, 2024
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give it to me straight https://picallow.com/pic-1270/?usp_success=2&post_id=325221&form_id=27

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Title Really been feeling like I'm never good enough as a 6'4" non-white dude in Canada.
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No_Stress3476

Upvotes 0
Comments 28
Date May 20, 2024 12:26 PM UTC
(2 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1cweblf/really_been_feeling_like_im_never_good_enough_as/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/really-been-feeling-like-im-never-good-enough-as-a.1519015
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[–]asssoe 7 points8 points9 points 2 years ago (17 children) | Copy Link

Nothing wrong with you physically. Yet just from that single picture I get a feeling of self pitying behavior that will turn girls away from you. Fix your facial expression and demeanor and I’m sure you’ll find some success

[–]No_Stress3476[S] 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (16 children) | Copy Link

can u explain

[–]chips_and_hummus 3 points4 points5 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

you don’t look happy and are not giving off fun vibes. this isn’t a result of how you look it’s a result of how you’re presenting yourself. look at the camera and smile like you’re having a good time.

[+]omega05 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

You're 6'4 bro what are you talking about? You have what millions of men would kill for. You're a normal looking dude. Walk with your head up high.

Also what color of women do you usually go for?

[–]No_Stress3476[S] 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

tbh - find all attractive but based on volume and demographics it ends up being mainly white

[+]omega05 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Im in Chicago. White women love tall black men from what I see.

Whats your age?

[–]No_Stress3476[S] 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

29

[–]bert_cj 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link

Let’s see the photo

[–]No_Stress3476 2 years ago [recovered] (9 children) | Copy Link

https://picallow.com/pic-1270/?usp_success=2&post_id=325221&form_id=27

[–]bert_cj 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Damn you look good to me bro and 6’4? What’s the percentage of black people where you’re at? Are you specifically into white women?

Only thing I can say is I can’t tell if the loose fitted clothing is making you look a bit more skinny fat. You got abs?

[–]No_Stress3476[S] -1 points0 points1 point 2 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

i dont have abs. was super skinny growing up so went on a bulk but now im trying to lean out. ironically im in Toronto so theres a ton of black folks which is not a good thing (you lose the exotic factor). And ya i def am into the whyte chicks lol

[–]bert_cj 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

What you think of the Kendrick vs Drake beef bro 🤣

Ah ok, you’re looking a little skinny fat then, got some roundness to your face. I’d say cut while staying high protein to keep muscle mass.

According to google there 14% south Asian, 10% Chinese and 45% white? Does that sound right?

I’d recommend going to the white spots then, shoot your shot at the girls you like

[–]No_Stress3476[S] 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

its an entertaining beef XD and ya i think i got a bit too hung up on bulking, alot went to my face and stomach. diet and leanmaxxing starts now.

[+]TRTGymBro1 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

You don't look very well groomed. I mean you don't look homeless, but as a black guy you should get properly lined up. Your hairline is also receding so you should consider shaving it off or trying a style that suits you better. Your nails don't look properly trimmed, etc. These are the details women look at to determine if you are a high quality guy. If you don't treat yourself like royalty, why should they bother with you?

Also, don't know the rest of your dressing style, but what you are wearing now looks really boring. Experiment with something like a crisp white shirt or polo, showing your chain, nice designed shades and a pair or black or navy slacks or slim fit jeans. You may be able to pull off plain white sneakers or some nice shoes. Get a nice watch. Nothing Apple watch, etc.

Just fyi, the shirt you are wearing is about a size or two too large. The shoulder seam should line up with your shoulder bone. Your last is hanging off to the side. Looks sloppy and like a nerd who has no idea how to dress. Try wearing more V necks or shirts that reveal your chest.

[–]No_Stress3476[S] 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

i get haircut every 2 weeks

[–]No-Preference8767 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I seen the picture. You're fine. especially at 6 4 Do you have a good looking face ? No .

but you have a good enough face. Just continuously up your hygiene game over time , make sure your facial hair is growing and , keep it pushin. Also if you're the same 6 4 black guy from Canada that was worried about his hair , your fine. You can still style and grow out your hair a bit

[–]No_Stress3476[S] 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

interesting. whats wrong with it

[–]No-Preference8767 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm not gonna sck your dk and the woman that will sCK your d**k won't care that much either Dont worry about it unless your talking to a barber or in a skin care store talking to an employee

[–]PUNCHCAT 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Can you grow a cool beard?

Gym is always a recommendation, I'm older and not that big and I'm pretty envious of cool black dudes at the gym.

[–]No_Stress3476[S] 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

i already gym

[–]romeMAJOR 2 points3 points4 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You should have a a huge advantage. Lean into the BBC shctick. Also your 6 ft 4, bitches love tall guys. But I’d say lean into something. Find your target audience. If it’s white girls you gotta act white. If it’s black girls you gotta act more black. If it’s Asian being more bookish and nerdy

[–]DaygameCode 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

You need a serious change of style, a fresh haricut, proper nutririon and workout. You look like an average dude who is sad and depressed with life and takes a significant amount of alcohol and processed food to cope with his deprresion.

The picture you posted communicates: "Please don't date me, i wouldn't date someone like me if i were you".

[–]No_Stress3476[S] 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

can u expand a lil - especially in terms of style? what kind of style should i aim for? i already worked out, put a few lbs on, now just tryna lean out.

[–]No_Stress3476[S] 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

tbh i dont even drink a lot anymore just a lot of weed is how i cope wit life depression

[–]cemj86 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If that's how you feel. That's where you'll remain.

[–]Pedro_Moona 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Your looks are fine, start winning at life!

[+]reallystupidbf 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Can you send me a photo of yourself? I feel Iike as another black guy I can see what is easy to point out

[+]Jazzlike-Corner6246 -1 points0 points1 point 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Wear black top. Add long hair at the top part of the head. Either shave or create long curly beard. Frown a bit always, but have kind voice. Thats it. If you have huge cock, which i guess by your parameter you might have, hunt for them it should motivate your, But be kind

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