Should i ignore her entirely?

JF803 · 2015-11-07T16:27:42+00:00

Don't use snapchat to ask girls out initially. End of story.

Murfdigidy · 2015-11-07T14:54:58+00:00

I'd address only for the aspect of showing you're a man. Next time you see her, Say hey did you get my message, I know this sweet spot for lunch you should join me. Say exactly this, don't wait for her to answer did you get my message go right into asking her to go to lunch.

Now I'm sure she got the message and is just ignoring you, but this shows you're a man by not being offended she didn't respond and shows you're assertive by asking her in person. Now she may flake out and say, oh that's really sweet or I'd love to but I got such and such. .. Whatever her flake out answer is act totally unphased by it, as if whatever her answer is it has no bearing on your day. .... At the end of her flake out answer say okay your loss see you around, in a totally upbeat tone

fruit7 · 2015-11-07T19:16:39+00:00

If she was interested she probably would have responded to the invite. Anyways, I'd invite her to do something else another time in person after a short casual conversation. I wouldn't bring up the fact that she missed or ignored your text; that sounds childish to me. People have lives.

aZZburgers1 · 2015-11-07T14:54:58+00:00

I feel like there is no other way than to approach her again and ask her out directly. You should probably say something about her not responding, like "I messaged you, but you didn't respond yada yada". If you don't then you will come off as pretty beta and and it will be awkward between you no matter if she ignored you or simply didn't see it. This way you're owning up to your words and even if she rejects you, you can respect yourself (she will also respect you, but that's not what this is about).

Don't blindly trust me, though. This is just my opinion and you should build your own. Good luck!

positiveinfluences · 2015-11-07T14:48:04+00:00

I'd mention the fact that she hasn't answered in a really playful way and then ask her out in person then and there. That'll tell ya all you need to know if she's interested in ya. One phrase that I use for missed texts is "hey i don't know if you heard the news but texting back is a free feature!" Or something in that vein. Don't let her get away without asking her out, because I feel like snapchat is weak for game because it doesn't always necessitate a response, more people will ignore a snap than would ignore a text for example

Drogba006 · 2015-11-07T18:19:39+00:00

Not a connection bro. You talked for all of 5 minutes.

You contacted her mutiple times through different avenues.

Smile when you see her and move on.

FriendlyNCool · 2015-11-07T18:54:04+00:00

Talk to her if you're around her. Don't get butthurt and ignore her when she's right in front of you, that's what 12 year olds do

WhiteHairedWidow · 2015-11-08T14:15:27+00:00

Don't waste your time man. Do not talk to her anymore. Ignore her. Don't send her anymore texts. If you completely ignore her, she will come up to you and when she asks why you haven't talks to her lately, just blow her off.

Mouthpiece · 2015-11-08T16:18:06+00:00

If you see her, say hi and go about your business. Don't get all butt hurt. In fact, it's probably not even about you.

zserjk · 2015-11-08T00:01:09+00:00

I am kinda in a similar spot, and have the same dilema. So advice would be helpfull here as well.

I ll try to keep it short met a girl while traveling, comes out we are from the same city. Broke it off with a number saying we should go out when we arrived. Later next week,during my birthday she send her wishes etc and told her to come over at the bar i ll be celebrating, she said she would but didnt, had a solid excuse. Now a week goes by and she says she feels bad for not calling and we arrange a coffee, here is the catch a friend of hers come with us ( I was unaware of that), and some others that happened to pass by and they stick with us. One of them gave a clear signal to me saying something like " if you like a girl like you do with "Mary" would you check her phone?" during a convo. We broke it off and i get to escort her to a girlfriends house, during that time i fucked up, we were alone and i didnt pull the trigger, guess i was too zoned out with 5-6 girls around me having random ass conversations from 2 hours. I let her go with a hug and a kiss on the chick. Now 2-3 days later i send her a message she didnt reply and a facebook pm, happened to see her out said she was out of credit on her phone and didnt check facebook, and that she will call me when she has a break from work ( i know she works 6/7 days till late in the evening). Now I know she has been going out quite a lot at nights, given the amount of "check ins" people include her.

And its been almost 2 weeks, should i give it one more shot or has the ship sailed?

Title	Should i ignore her entirely?
Author	mynameisnotj0hn
Upvotes	47
Comments	40
Date	November 7, 2015 2:19 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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